44 Year Old Virgin Doesn't Seem to Realize Why He's Still a Virgin @ladbiblestories

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0:00 Hey guys, what's up? As requested, I'm going to be reviewing a video called 44 Year Old Virgin Answers Your Questions.

[video] 0:10 Hello, my name is Stephen Kinnard. I run my own businesses, but today I'm here to talk about being a 44 year old virgin on Honesty Box.

[video] 0:23 Why are you a virgin? Well, because I haven't slept with anybody yet. But it's something that there is a big question mark over that because I'm not socially awkward. I don't really have any funny habits.

0:36 That's interesting. He's not aware of it himself. I'm pretty sure that everybody who's watching the video knows why he's a virgin. And I'm not trying to offend the guy in any way. Truly, I am not. But he is clearly biologically not attractive. Also, he's 44.

0:57 From the looks alone, I would have guessed that he's around 64. He actually does look 20 years older. He looks very exhausted, but even if he would be 24, he was most likely never attractive. That's what happens to incels. They are involuntary celibates.

1:23 It's not as if they want to be like that, it's just that the way they look like doesn't allow them to have any intimacy.

1:38 He seems very introverted, silent, not confident at all, which of course makes sense, you cannot naturally be. If this was Brad Pitt at 44, he would be talking about his success with women, let's just say. But because he looks the way he looks, he didn't have any success with women. That's it. It's just about your looks. That's what makes the difference.

[video] 2:08 Yes, because you probably experienced that women didn't like you.

2:23 or most likely even told you to get away. That's usually how women respond to unattractive men. They can be pretty brutal for sure. You can see videos online. They will straight up tell guys that they are ugly without even blinking.

[video] 2:40 Such as it's only sex, just go and do it, sex is not important. But to me somehow it's always been important and a very private thing between two people.

2:49 This is usually what men who are coping will say. They will say that it's special, they are waiting for the right girl and so on. Some women also say that when they are young and then of course when any opportunity occurs, they will go for it right away.

[video] 3:10 That's the reality behind it.

3:15 It's just something that you naturally do. I think that religions for the most part, for sure, but also social media today made it into something more special in people's heads, as in people were brainwashed. In reality,

3:35 It just is what it is. It's like doing anything naturally.

[video] 3:38 ...to come out and publicly speak about this. Why have you chosen to do so? I've chosen to do so because in the past I felt quite bad at times and on my own and very sad. It's quite a private thing, obviously, and most people lose their virginity when they're younger. So as I've got older, I've found it more...

3:58 Yes, and that's because if you're attractive enough, which means that you can attract the other gender, then... There's no problem, of course, because if you're a guy and you're attractive, all of the women will come to you. You will attract them. If anything, you will have the problem of choosing who you want to be together with. The more attractive you are, the more that would be a problem. And the less attractive you are, the more it will be a problem to find anybody at all. The older you get, the less likely it will be that you will ever find somebody. Imagine, for example, again, let's just take Brad Pitt as an example. If he was 44 and he would make this video that he's a virgin, the comments would be full of people saying, what? That's impossible. What's this guy's number? Where does he live? I'm going to take his virginity. It would be full of women.

4:51 wanting to do that because he's attractive because he isn't attractive i haven't checked the comments but i'm sure that it's not full of women saying where do i find this guy i want to take his virginity you see because it's just all about your looks of a struggle uh being a virgin and i've realized that there are other people out there that are the same as me so i felt the need to talk about it i was given the chance to talk about it and hopefully it will help other people as it's helped me There are other people out there. There's no women out there, except if they were nuns. Women don't have a problem, as we have seen in many experiments, to get a date no matter how they look like. But men will for sure have trouble. It's just because of society. That's a whole topic of its own.

[video] 5:43 Have you ever considered using a sex worker to take your virginity? Well, I did once in my late 20s, as you do, but I would certainly not do so, otherwise I would have done it already. I mean, it's a personal choice, but if I say you're an older virgin, it's up to you. But it would make me feel hideous afterwards. As I said before, sex has always been a very important thing and affection and a right environment.

6:06 Oh man, this guy is very, very depressed. This is a really bad case. I don't get it. He did it in his late 20s. But what did he do then if he's still a virgin? Or did he try but then not do it after all? I don't really get what he means by that.

[video] 6:25 That's certainly not for me. Do you struggle with confidence? Absolutely. I think everyone does in some sort of respect in their life. But yes, I struggle with confidence.

6:36 Yes, that's one of the first things I noticed. He has no confidence whatsoever because of the way he was treated his whole life. You gotta understand that confidence comes naturally. Again, for the third time, if you take Brad Pitt as an example, he seems very confident because he was always treated very well by everybody, especially women. And if you're not treated well and women... at least with their body language, show you that they don't want you, then your confidence is going to be absolutely at the bottom.

[video] 7:17 Are you an incel? Well, I suppose it stands for involuntary, but yes, it's involuntary. Because I did want sex and I saw my friends losing their virginities and having relationships. To that point, yes.

7:31 Except if you have no testosterone at all in your body, which wouldn't even be possible, then you, of course, want to be intimate with a woman. And if you're not able to do it, then you're an insult. That's it.

[video] 7:46 but I don't hold a grudge against any lady or woman or girl in the past. So I'm not an incel in that respect.

7:52 What do you think the word incel means to most people when they hear that?

[video] 7:55 I think they mean, they think of a loner and somebody that's got a grudge, maybe a recluse, and is capable of bad things.

8:05 Oh, I've never seen it that way. I only ever heard about that word around two years ago.

[video] 8:12 Have sex if or when you find the right partner. Yes, I will. And I will be totally honest about my situation and make them feel comfortable as well and make them feel that I'm not a special case. And yes, when the time is right, I will do. Have you ever watched porn? Yes, and so have you.

8:37 That was good. Of course, insults will for the most part watch it simply because it's one of the few ways that they can actually look at the woman and of course probably also guys simultaneously I assume but uh at least I get an idea of how a woman would look like but then again it's of course fake I wouldn't recommend it I'm only saying that uh If you cannot have it for real, then you just find any kind of fake way to simulate it.

[video] 9:16 Have you ever been ridiculed for being a virgin? I have, but they didn't know at the time. I used to work in a factory with a bunch of guys, and we all had a lot of banter. They were a great bunch of guys. Because I never used to really have much of a story about the weekend or going out sleeping around or anything like that, they used to joke about it. Steve's a virgin. Oh, no, he doesn't talk to girls. He's a virgin, but... But be reassured, I got my own back on them, jokingly. What did you do? I lost it with your mum. It was one of them. How do you view women? With great... Well, I adore them. So, yes, I view women as very interesting, complex...

9:59 Probably insanely interesting realistically.

[video] 10:03 Catch you out, keeps you on your toes, but I find them fascinating and enjoy being around them very much. Do you use dating apps? I don't use dating apps. I have done in the past, put a profile on there, a pretty weak attempt, but no.

10:16 Realistically, he's only going to get catfished on dating apps. It's just too late for that. Who knows how he used to look like? Maybe when he was 18, but then again, were there any dating apps back then? That's too long ago.

[video] 10:33 Certainly not currently. And they're not for me, personally. Are you just asexual? Absolutely not, no. I adore women, I love women, I love being around them and have feelings and I'm interested in having sex and enjoying the whole thing that goes with a relationship and intimacy. What is the lowest point you've had?

[video] 10:54 The lowest point I've had, I did want to things and thought seriously about things, planned it out and life's too precious and I've got too much to lose, too many good friends, family's great. really not worth it. That was a low point for me. Are you lonely? I was, but again, as I've got older, I've become more confident. I've always had very good friends and been okay in social situations. So even though I'm on my own at the moment, I'm not lonely and find ways of occupying myself. I've got plenty of interests and always a lot going on. And I'd say to anybody that's in my situation is to just find something that you're interested in and you'll never be lonely. if you could lose your vision.

11:40 Yeah, but realistically, that's never going to work. A human being needs other human beings around them. Naturally, you have children. In your 20s, you already have over five children. You have your children around you, everybody else, your whole big family. That's the way human beings are supposed to live. No matter what hobbies you find, what work you do, you will always feel lonely, of course, because nothing unnatural is going to replace something natural in general, let alone something like a family. You cannot even get close to that.

[video] 12:17 Virginity to a celebrity, who would it be? I think if I were to lose my virginity to somebody, it would be Darcy Bustle, the ballet dancer. I think she's fantastic. She's a classy lady.

12:28 Yeah. I bet you would like that.

[video] 12:32 She was at the top of her game in the ballet, and whenever I've seen her, she comes across very well, very friendly, genuine, and I think she's stunning. Are you coming on Ladbible to find a woman? Absolutely not. No, I'm here to get a message out across to people, men like me, teenage boys like me, to give them confidence, hopefully, and say that don't rush, it's not that bad. So I'm not coming on here to find a woman at all. I can see why someone would ask that.

13:02 um but no it's really just to help someone through what i've gone through would you i don't really see how this video would help it's not as if you're better now at 44 it's not as if you're confident now you're not shy your your life is somehow better

13:24 Nobody would look at this video and say, oh, wow, it does get better. Nobody, right? Somebody who's 30 now and is still a virgin wouldn't look at this video of you as a 44-year-old and think, oh, okay, so it does get better.

[video] 13:43 Be happy to go your whole life without sex.

13:46 No. No, come on. What kind of a question is that even?

[video] 13:49 Necessarily, no. But I'm prepared in case I don't.

13:55 And I'm learning that... Realistically, your only way is to find somebody who does it as their job. Well, that's easy. You don't really need to look for them very much. Realistically, at 44, nothing more is ever going to happen.

[video] 14:17 After all, it's not the most important thing. It's just an element of life.

14:21 um and uh i'm gonna make it's an incredibly essential so-called element of life you need that and good food for the most part really it's just those two things that make life good as in a actually special that's the way you become happy and healthy without it It's as if half of you is dead, basically. No matter how much food you eat, you can eat raw meat, blood, organs all day long. Without it, it's never going to be the same. It's just impossible. It's just insanely essential.

[video] 15:06 I do the best I can and enjoy it, enjoy the people that are around me and just enjoy other life experiences.

15:13 yeah this was a pretty hardcore video even if it may not seem like it it really gives you a deep look into the psyche of a guy who hasn't been intimate with anybody in 44 years that would naturally never happen in nature it's impossible to reach 44 and not do anything as in actually possible, there's for sure no recorded cases of this ever happening in nature, no matter how you look like. Of course, humans in nature look way better than the humans of today, but that doesn't even matter. It's not even related to it.

16:00 I could give this guy lots of advice, which I can't on YouTube, on how to very easily find somebody. But in his case, seeing as he lives in modern slavery, as I said, the only way for him is to simply find somebody who does it as a job. It's fake. You're going to be wasting your money on it, but... In his case, is it not even better? Tell me what you think about it. I would think that it's actually better for him to go with that than with nothing at all. It's gonna give him some actual biological relief. And you could also say mental relief. Because he will at least... Again, be with somebody. Yeah, it's fake, but...

17:01 It's a lot more real than watching Korn. A hundred times more real because it's actually real. It's just that she's not going to be into you and that's why you're going to be paying for it. But he lives in the UK, right? In the UK it's legal as far as I know. You can pretty much go anywhere.

17:25 Why not? Then I really don't see any problem with it. I wouldn't recommend it in general ever, but if you're completely lonely and you're this miserable, if you're in your 20s, totally, you can try to change your looks a lot, as in your face. Don't go to the gym and make yourself look older, especially your face. and then you can still probably do it you're not gonna find a woman who's gonna be attracted to you anymore especially one who's gonna want to have a family it's just done already the only thing that people like that can do is have women who use them if they are rich yeah

18:12 The video didn't give man a message of hope and really my conclusion about the video is also that there isn't much hope. The video also ended this way. What is there? It was just bleak. His whole life was bleak and the future is also bleak. That's the vibe that I got from the video. I don't think that was also supposed to give you any other feelings. And that's why my conclusion can also only be bleak. If it would be true that you can focus on hobbies, work and do something else... which makes you happy then the vibe of the video wouldn't have been like this you can see that clearly a large part of a natural life was completely missing throughout this guy's lifetime and that's exactly why he is the way he is thanks for watching