Alexander Grace: A Bluepilled Blackpiller @alexandergrace5350

Watch on YouTube · 2022-12-15 · 14 min

0:00 Alright, what's up guys? Some of you wanted me to review some black pill videos. This is a guy called Alexander Grace and he made a video called This is why you must talk down to women.

[video] 0:12 I heard someone say, it's so crazy how a woman can walk into a room with 10 different guys, showering her with compliments, telling her how beautiful and amazing she is, offering her everything they got, treating her like an absolute queen. Then all of a sudden, there's this 11th guy who simply just walks in, says hi to her, turns his back, and go talks to his voice. And surprisingly, that's the guy the woman will choose.

0:33 Nothing surprising about it. If she chose the last guy, then it's only because he is attractive. And the other guys were not. It doesn't matter what you say. Language is man-made. You can say whatever you want to a girl. If she doesn't find you attractive, then she's never going to find you attractive. That's just the reality. And the last guy comes up, says anything or doesn't even say anything at all, and she's going to be attracted to him. He's going to be like a magnet. He's gonna pull her in.

[video] 1:02 Wow. This is the first guy who has said something that actually makes sense in all of these videos that I've been reviewing lately. He's exactly right, spot on.

[video] 1:22 go through life you learn what is acceptable to say and do in front of women through a painful process of trial and error like it's okay to flirt with women a little bit to be like a little bit cocky and they enjoy that but if you push it too far then they get angry and so you have to scale it back you realize okay women like it up to this point but then after that point women don't like it and those are the rules of women wrong that's not the right conclusion to reach you haven't actually

1:47 I was also just going to stop the video and say wrong. Yeah, there is no such thing. Again, it only matters how you look like, essentially. There's nothing wrong that you can really say to a woman. You could use the cheesiest pickup line there is. If you're attractive, she's still going to be into you.

[video] 2:01 ...actually discovered any fundamental principles about women in your whole process of trial and error. you've actually just been learning about yourself. It's not a case of when you push it too far, women don't like it. It's that you've pushed it too far and women won't tolerate that behavior from you. No unattractive male behaviors, just unattractive men. This is why when feminists talk about how outrageous it is to make sexist comments in front of women, it often rings very hollow. I know this doesn't apply to all women, so props to you high quality women who have some integrity and consistency. I want you to imagine this scenario. Leonardo DiCaprio is out at some club and he sees some girl and he approaches her. She's pretty, she's wearing like a club kind of outfit, And he says, wow, you're showing off so much skin, you've got a great body. The girl looks at Leonardo DiCaprio and is like, oh my god, he's talking to me. And so she laughs and giggles and is like, yeah, thanks. In her head, she's screaming, I can't believe I just got complimented by Leonardo DiCaprio.

[video] 2:59 But two weeks earlier, some nervous, shy, ugly, low-value man had approached her in a similar club and said, you have a really nice body. Her response to that was, what the fuck? I can't believe he just said that to me. That is so insulting and degrading. But just one more time for those people in the back who really haven't let the message sink in yet. There are no unattractive male behaviors. There are only unattractive men. And by unattractive, I don't just mean in terms of looks. I mean in terms of status, confidence, money. Unattractive could just...

3:32 Okay, this is the first thing that he's wrong about. Let's take the example of Leonardo DiCaprio. He is not an actor and has this status in society just because. He has this status because of his looks. In Hollywood, especially, they choose people because of their genetics. The better genetics you have, the better roles you're going to get in movies. These are also the kind of people they use for advertisements. And these people are also going to make a lot of money, which doesn't exist, but that's what we believe in nowadays. We use paper with no worth or have numbers in our bank accounts. And again, It's because these people are genetically gifted, so to speak, and people who are taller are going to have better jobs or better positions in their jobs at least. They're going to climb the career ladder much easier than somebody who is shorter. And if you're good-looking on top of that, then it's going to be even easier for you. But women do not care about status because it doesn't exist in any way at all. It's not something that you can...

4:31 physically see, touch or anything like that. You can't sense it and you also can't sense money. So naturally no woman is attracted to that, but she will be indirectly attracted to it just because all of these people will be usually much more genetically gifted and that's what a woman wants, of course. She wants it because she wants to reproduce with these men. The bottom line is that the only reason this girl would appreciate the comment from Leonardo DiCaprio is because he looks much better than the ugly guy. not because of status or something, men made some idea.

[video] 5:03 Just mean that you're lacking sufficient masculinity to sexually polarize the women that you're speaking to and generate that attraction. But my point is, is that when you're attractive, different rules apply. The attractive guy is flirting and making, you know, some cocky comments and the woman's loving it. But if he's unattractive, it's like, oh my God, I can't believe you said that to me. How dare you? That's so sexist. Those objections saying that like those comments are degrading to all women

5:28 It rings hollow because- Yes, and even women who are into feminism a lot, they will still appreciate it if an attractive guy will give them a compliment. They will act as if they don't, but you can see through that, and I know a lot of situations like this.

[video] 5:42 What she claims is offensive isn't because you can't make certain comments, as a man to a woman, it's because she has deemed you to be a low-value man, you're not in her league. If she sees a man and she thinks, I'm better than him, I'm above him, you know, I'm more valuable, I'm higher quality, and he has the audacity to, like, comment on her clothes or her appearance, her response is, like, looking down with disgust, with contempt, like, how dare you comment on my clothes? Alfred Chad, you know, pinnacle high-quality guy, like, yeah, you can comment on my clothes, I'm just grateful to have your attention, but you... Low value man down there. Any comments you make, you're just being a creep. The why is this? Well, I've covered this on the channel before and also a lot on my Patreon, but essentially it comes back to evolutionary reasons. Women are trying to present themselves to be as high quality as possible so that they can get with the top man in their tribe. You know, that's her hypergamy. I want him to think of me as an equal partner and she's worried. that if some low-value guy starts...

6:33 There is of course no such thing as hypergamy. There isn't even marriage in nature. There is no way to level up because this is an idea which doesn't exist. There's also no society in nature, no social status, none of that.

[video] 6:48 patting to her and hitting on her, you know, thinking that he has a chance with her. If she entertains that, you know, if she buys into that reality, then she's worried that she's going to be diminished in the eyes of the high quality guy. Like, oh, I guess she's not as desirable partner as I thought she was. And so she's always nervous that the high quality guy is watching these interactions. And that's why she's especially cruel and punishing in those rejections from the low value guys, like really insulting and get away from me. you creep. Now, here's the thing. Let's get into the nuance now, because I'm not making the case that women shouldn't necessarily have this double standard. What you're really seeing operate here is just hypergamy. And I have no problem with hypergamy. It's not something that's exclusive to human females. You see this in the animal kingdom for all species, right? Like, this is the reason why some birds make incredible nests or like Male walruses fight each other or some species do like a mating dance, you know, to try and attract the women. They're trying to show off like, I'm the superior male specimen here. Sleep with me so that your children will have my genes. That's what keeps the gene pool thriving. It keeps it healthy. It's a good thing.

7:47 Exactly. And that's a big contradiction because you were saying that man-made ideas are what matters when a woman chooses a guy. And then you name natural things that animals do, which are actually important, and the same goes for humans. Humans in general, men and women, are only attracted to something that is natural. That's all that we care about. We don't care about unnatural things and especially about something that doesn't exist, an idea such as status or money. He says the truth, but then doesn't realize that he's actually lying to his audience at the same time.

[video] 8:20 It doesn't work like that anyway, it's not something that you grow up with, it's not something that you learn.

8:43 A woman, no matter how old she is, is always going to choose somebody who is attractive and she's never going to care if he's broke or something like that.

[video] 8:51 Do you understand why earlier in this video I said that men who want to be successful in the dating market need to learn the art of speaking down to women? Now, when I said that, I'm not talking in the sort of layman's terms of speaking down, like being a dickhead or just like insulting women, like speaking down to them in that way. When I say speaking down, I mean in a more literal sense of you're placing yourself very high, like you have high status, you're high quality. And from that high place, you're speaking down to women, not through intention, it's not coming to you, but because people admire you, they respect you, they're attracted to you, they're looking up to you. It feels as though everyone...

9:28 Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that whatsoever. Imagine a fat, ugly guy who is high status coming up to a girl and giving her compliments or whatever, wanting to buy her a drink. It's never going to work because women don't care about ideas or anything that's unnatural. It's an idea that you have status in society. It's not something that exists. It's not something that you can sense in any way. So if he is a professor at your university, for example, which would be high status in the society, that's what you believe, it's an idea, then you would still not be attracted to him if he is not attractive naturally, which means his body. That's why it's completely irrelevant what your status is in society. It only matters what you look like.

[video] 10:12 She's thinking, this guy has no masculinity, has no confidence, no leadership, no strength. How's he going to provide for me? How's he going to keep me safe? How am I ever going to feel protected in his presence? She's not wrong to feel that way. But confident men who know their worth, who know their value and their quality, when they speak, it feels as though they're speaking down to women. And so long as it's not in an insulting or critical way, they're like snowflakes that just settle gently on a woman.

10:38 Confidence comes naturally when you're attractive though.

[video] 10:41 psyche and satiates her hypergamy. That's what you want. Women want to date winners, right? They're not attracted to low value men. They're not attracted to losers. They're attracted to winners. And so you got to speak like a winner, a graceful winner, not a cocky dick.

10:55 Again, that comes naturally. It's not even something that you can really control. A lot of people online believe that they can watch these kinds of videos or some nonsense red pill videos and learn how to do it. Firstly, you're gonna be like that anyway if you're attractive, and the only thing that could in any way help you is to change the biochemistry of your body. So if you are lacking anything, then you gotta start drinking blood, you gotta start hunting and eating raw animal organs. That's the only thing that can affect your biochemistry in a way that you're going to become even more confident if you are already somewhat attractive.

[video] 11:30 because like hypergamy will operate but if you're acting like you're better than everybody the only women you're going to attract are women of really low self-esteem on this channel i'm always trying to get guys to raise their standards and to shoot for that really top percentage of women genuinely feminine kind sweet high quality women and from that place like yeah you've got to have that high status and that high quality but you've got to be graceful and dignified about it otherwise she's not going to have time for you to look at the cockiness that surrounds you like all the ego and rightfully conclude that you've just lost yourself in like an immature kind of fantasy like you're still a little boy and she's going to save herself for a genuine man who comes along after you've done all that self-work can you imagine what it's going to be like to re-enter the dating market when you're at your peak when you're at your pinnacle you know your 28 years old, you've got your whole future looking really bright, it's all out in front of you, you've got great friends, great self-esteem, and then you meet some 24-year-old girl who's nice, she's pleasant, but basically she's pretty and that's it.

[video] 12:28 She hasn't really done the work that you've done, she hasn't got the achievements, she hasn't developed the character...

12:33 If you're 28, then you should never go for a 24 year old girl. That's really a waste.

[video] 12:40 Of course, this all assumes that modern women are mature enough to actually be committed in a monogamous relationship. Is that true? Well, that's actually the topic of my latest Patreon video. Did you know?

12:52 Patreon sucks. This guy is on the right path. I would say that 40-50% of the stuff he said is true and the rest was actually absolute garbage. And what I mean by true or truth is of course nature. If you want to understand human nature, men, women, relationships and so on, then you gotta understand nature. And you can only really do that once you start eating naturally, your biochemistry changes, and so on, everything that you have learned from all of my videos. All of the red pill videos that I've watched, I would say that they are pretty much 100% wrong. Really, they don't say anything true whatsoever. The black pill videos that I've seen, they're usually kind of half right, and That's because they just don't understand human nature. They still include a lot of things such as status, which is an idea, nobody cares about it, or a lot of unnatural things, which women and men are supposedly attracted to. And that's of course because of the modern society and

13:51 You can't really blame these people that they don't understand nature, because we really get conditioned in school and by the media, all of these movies, to tell us that that's what humans care about, and then when you don't know anything else, when you've never lived in nature or experienced natural humans, then of course it makes sense to believe that women care about status, until you realize that the people who have a high status are actually just good-looking people, and it always all goes back to nature. Just always. Thanks for watching.