Blackpilling Courtney Ryan About Dating @Courtney Ryan

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0:00 Hey guys, I'm going to be reviewing a video called First Date Tier List by Courtney Ryan.

[video] 0:06 Hi everyone, welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, I'm Courtney Ryan. And today we're doing something a little bit different. You guys have really enjoyed my little tier list that I've made in the past. So I thought today we would do a tier list ranking of first date ideas from specifically a woman's perspective here. So I know there's a lot of mixed information online about dates, about first dates. So I wanted to give you guys a woman's perspective on different first date ideas, some common ones that I typically...

0:26 I can already tell you that it doesn't matter where you will go on this date, what you will do, because if you don't find the guy attractive, then it really doesn't matter. But we'll see what she says.

[video] 0:38 We see online some more controversial ones and just rank them on this tier list and see what we think. So let's get into it. Okay, for the first one here, we are starting out with a controversial one, which is coffee. And honestly, I love a coffee date. I've seen a lot of women get online and absolutely...

0:52 It's not a good idea to be together with a woman or a man also who drinks coffee because they will be adrenalized. They will be very stressed. That's unhealthy, of course, and when you're biochemically sick like that, drinking toxic seed water, then of course you will not be a joy to be around. It will be unpleasant, most likely. Therefore, if two slaves go to some building to drink seed water together, then firstly, they are both brainwashed, and secondly, they will probably have a lot of fights. It's just a bad start.

[video] 1:33 Nobody on earth likes coffee and tea. That's why you add sugar to it. Because you hate it.

[video] 1:51 a lovely conversation without worrying about having food stuck in your teeth, which I can appreciate. I think it's cute and casual and doesn't involve any sort of time constraint. This could allow you to sit there and talk for hours as long as you wish. Or if you guys are not really hitting it off, you can go your separate ways and not be tied to a very fancy four course meal. So again, before we get too far into the video, I do want to reiterate.

2:09 Yeah, but again, you can already see if you like them or not. What does it matter what hobbies, values they have or whatever she is probably gonna say, if you don't find him attractive and also the other way around, what's the point of it?

[video] 2:28 I am just one woman. So what I think might not be the same as every woman that you see online or every woman in the world, but I just wanted to offer a woman's perspective on some of these things and maybe help you see it.

2:37 Right, but it doesn't matter because it's going to be the same for every woman and man on earth. Of course, men are not picky nowadays, obviously, but that's social. It's like the today. It's not the man's nature. But if we talk about women... Every woman on earth is gonna want to be together with a guy who's tall and handsome, ideally, but the better looking you are, the more of a chance you will have. Whether you go and drink coffee, tea, go to McDonald's or whatever, it's really not gonna matter. Because if she's into you, she's only gonna see you. She doesn't even see your surroundings. That's how you know that it's working or that you're working because she will be lost in your eyes for the most part.

3:34 She will not even be conscious of where she is or what she is doing. If you tell her, let's go and

3:43 shoplift, not that I recommend it, she would say, what? Oh yeah, okay. I'm just giving an extreme example because my point is that she would pretty much do anything, whatever you're up to, whatever you want to do. It just doesn't matter.

[video] 4:00 from different points of view. I only ever went on a coffee date for a first date when I was in college. And I felt like that was a pretty appropriate first date for the period of life that I was in. There are definitely pros and cons to this one. I do see where women are coming from when they say that it could come across low effort. However, like I said, I think it can also be a great date that leads to wonderful conversation and be very casual and no pressure for both people involved. So I'm not going to put it in S tier simply because I know there are a ton of women who don't agree with me. And because this type of date will really require heavier lifting on the conversation skills and ability to keep a conversation flowing, which might not be the best option for all of you. So I'm going to put the

4:31 What does it matter? What conversation skills? In nature, there is no language as we have it today. No English, Chinese, German. There are sounds, and of course people did give meaning to these sounds, but The languages which are found in more natural tribes don't even have a past tense or anything like that, really. Because they just live in the moment and only have words for what they need to survive. That's about it. It's not super complicated. Point being, obviously what you say or how you talk to her is never gonna matter. That's what they want you to believe. Not saying women, more so society itself.

[video] 5:21 A tier. Again, this is my perspective. If you don't agree, that's fine. It's not your tier list. So I'm putting it in A because I think there are some things that are better, but I think it's a great option for a lot of people. Okay, the next one here is another controversial one, which is a walk. A walk by itself with nothing else included.

5:36 A walk is good. Walking is natural. Every human walks. We always have walked. It's a way of moving your body. Going for a walk in a park, in some forest.

5:51 Now that I think about it, that's what I have always done on so-called dates.

5:58 Interesting. Yeah, interesting.

[video] 6:02 isn't necessarily the greatest date, in my opinion. A picnic with a walk? Very cute. Again, this is one that women tend to have incredibly strong opinions on, and I can understand why. You know, if a woman likes to get dressed up on a first date, for example, and wear a cute outfit, maybe a walk on a super hot day is not the greatest option. Some women, again, also think this comes across low effort. I'm sure some women think that simply because it is free. I think there are many free things you can do that are not low effort. However, just a walk by itself, I wouldn't recommend. I don't think that necessarily comes across the greatest, and I think that there are much better options.

6:32 yes drinking seed water is better well i guess we'll see probably the way she talks you know i think walking around somewhere like a farmer's market and grabbing a coffee or brunch would be super what's up with the coffee can you just shut up about it go and drink a coffee she probably has some kind of deficiency as in the addiction is wearing off

[video] 6:57 cute that i would probably give s tier but just a walk i'm gonna go probably low b tier c tier and actually i'm going to put a walk alone by itself in c tier but if you combine that walk with something else then it can really move up in the ranks in my opinion so maybe that's what you take away from this video one thing on its own not the greatest but when you combine it with some

7:17 It really doesn't matter anyway. It's all the same.

[video] 7:20 Yeah, that's actually a good point, of course. If you literally just meet and then go inside, you just watch a movie. But then again,

7:43 It's for sure not natural, don't get me wrong, but it's more natural in the sense that you're there sitting together, hopefully pretty close to each other, and really all the dating is about is finding somebody you find attractive purely by looks, and then reproducing with them. Women and men may not say that, they may not even be conscious of it today, but that's your animal nature and that's why you go on dates. It's the only reason, only for reproduction. And when you watch a movie, you're not talking, which is technically more natural. That's how the interactions would be in nature. Not that you wouldn't exchange any sounds at all. You would exchange sounds when you're reproducing, obviously. But I mean before that. My point is that when you're sitting close to each other during the movie, really you can just feel each other.

8:41 And really it's in that sense better. Of course, you're probably at the same time getting really brainwashed by Hollywood. Watching some romance movie where the woman learns that she needs to have drama all of the time.

8:56 That's bad, but it's for sure better than drinking a coffee in that sense, because when you drink coffee, you talk, which is irrelevant at the end of the day. You adrenalize yourself, which is also only gonna provoke probably anger and stress, obviously, which isn't gonna really end well. The date isn't gonna go well. And you're sitting opposed to each other. One side and the other, you can't really touch each other or anything. Again, movie theater in that sense is better.

[video] 9:32 to be quiet, which obviously isn't conducive to getting to know someone at all. And while we're here, I've got to say, if you were someone who talks during movies, straight to jail, you annoy me. You shouldn't be able to.

9:43 That's true. I will agree with her. That's the only part I agree with. I skipped over a few points because the video is long. she agrees with the going out for a meal and also going out to a museum as far as i understood and she doesn't agree with family reunions now let's go to the next one next up we have one that is not so great which is your house

[video] 10:06 I think it is always better for a first date or the first time you're meeting to meet in a public setting. I would never, ever, ever go to a guy's place for the first date because I watch and listen to way too many crime shows for that. Also, if anything in the...

10:20 Yes, maybe you should watch out today, sure. But if you do trust him, then really...

10:31 Nowadays, it's what you should be doing. Because again, as I said at the end of the day, it's all about reproducing. Okay, nowadays the way people are, I would understand getting to know somebody first, even though that's not how it would be naturally. But then again, you grow up very differently in nature also. You do know if you want to reproduce with somebody looks-wise, but because people are messed up nowadays, even though it's not exactly natural, it's probably good to get to know somebody. But really what you want to do is just go back to their place realistically. If you actually find them attractive, that's gonna be the case most of the time.

[video] 11:15 world is going to be considered low effort. It is just asking a girl to come over to your house. And I know some of you might be thinking, well, what if I want it to cook for her on the first date? Again, I think from a woman's perspective here, it is a safety thing. I just would not feel safe meeting up with someone at their house that I just met online could be different. Again, if you already knew this person, You would.

12:00 If it was a guy that looks like Brad Pitt or whatever, of course, but that's not gonna be the case for you.

[video] 12:07 You would do just about anything if it was the right guy, and you know that. It's super weird, I've never heard of anybody

12:25 who went on a date in a gym. You could meet at the gym and I wouldn't recommend it because I don't think that the girls there are gonna be very mentally well.

[video] 12:35 ...hike in my opinion, but at least this one is in a public setting. Do you really want to be getting sweaty, out of breath, not able to really talk to each other? I don't know.

12:45 Maybe a few... It's kind of like drinking coffee. You're stressed all the time. The adrenaline, cortisol are through the roof. Why would you want to talk to each other while being super stressed? Some guys even drink coffee before a workout, a lot of them actually do, meaning that they will be even more stressed. How can you then really normally, healthy, biochemically interact with another human being?

[video] 13:14 We met at the gym. But I have to think if you met at the gym, wouldn't it be nice to do something that's not at the gym? I don't know. I'm going to put it in D. I don't think it's as bad as inviting a girl.

13:24 Come on, man. That's stupid. That's just minus F, just out of the list. It's not even an option.

[video] 13:29 D or F for me. I'm going to be generous and put it in D. But for me personally, I would not want to go to the gym for a first date. Could be F. It might move down to F. Stay tuned.

13:38 Next up, we have... You shouldn't go to a gym in general, especially as a woman. Nobody wants to go to a gym because you suffer. Nobody wants to suffer. But for a woman especially, because of the lack of testosterone, it's even harder. It's more exhausting. It would be horrible for a date.

[video] 14:01 A drink date, I'm thinking a bar, a winery, some sort of thing where the date...

14:06 Similar to the coffee, why would you go and intoxicate yourself with somebody else? Then you're both miserable. You should both go to Alcoholics Anonymous instead, seriously.

[video] 14:18 It is centered around getting drinks. Now, a lot of you who watch my channel probably already know where I stand on alcohol. I don't drink for many different reasons. It's very personal for me, but I know that most people do, so I will say this. If this is the route you're going to go for a first date, be responsible about it. Now, I would recommend being completely in control of yourself and able to think clearly on a first date. I think this can go downhill pretty quickly. So make sure that you're being responsible. You don't want to be the guy who gets sloppy drunk on the first date or ever. It's just not a good look. I don't necessarily think having a lot of alcohol involved leads to anything positive. Again, I know that I'm in the... Yeah, exactly.

14:50 Because as I said, you're going to be intoxicated. The more you drink, of course, sure, most people don't get super drunk. Although a lot of people do actually, now that I think about it. It's because they are too shy or whatever to get intimate with somebody, which is why they need to get drunk beforehand. But my point is that you're really not going to be pleasant to be around when you're intoxicated, obviously. You're biochemically very unwell in that state.

[video] 15:22 This is where I'm ranking everything. S tier, we have a sort of informal, cute little restaurant for a meal that's not so fancy. and a guided type thing. I'm not going to go through the whole thing because you just watched me put everything in its spot, but let me know if you agree or disagree down in the comments. Again, it doesn't change my ranking.

15:40 It should really just be what you both are into, which would of course be something natural or as natural as it can be in today's society. Going for a walk, for example, just enjoying nature, getting some sun. That's good. Picnic, eat some food, healthy food ideally. Yeah. And because this is my ranking from a woman's perspective, this is what I think, and you can absolutely think whatever... Yeah, but whether it's from a man's or a woman's perspective, at the end of the day, you don't want to go and drag along the girl doing something that only you like. And of course, the woman should also not do that, which is why I said, as long as you both like it, and everybody is going to like something that's natural, obviously, or again, as close to it as it can be.

16:31 But if not, then if you both like to play cards, whatever, whatever people do nowadays, probably not that, but if you enjoy some kind of specific museum, you're both into this specific art, some kind of art, it's probably gonna be best really just to do that. That will of course not change anything.

16:57 you still have to be attracted to each other. What date you go on isn't of course gonna matter.

[video] 17:02 The heck you wanna think? And of course you wanna keep in mind your personality and the person you're taking on a date. If they hate sports, well, then that would probably go in F. Oh, you know what I just thought of for shopping that could actually be really cute is like antique shopping. I love doing that. I think that would be a really cool first date.

17:19 I would basically almost die if I would have to do that. Not that anybody has to, but if a girl would drag me along, to do shopping in general. I can't stand shopping. I can't stand being in a store. I always know exactly what I need to get. I go and get it and out. That's it. And antique shopping, it would be like, I would literally, like my nerves would die. I would probably start shaking. I'm not even joking. I would be like, out. I need to get out.

[video] 17:52 to look at old stuff together. And there is definitely nuance to all of these things. I'm sure some of you have gone to the movies for a first date, for example, that ended up turning out really well, or maybe a family reunion. Maybe you invited this girl to a wedding for a first date and now you're married to her. There's nuance to everything. And I think we have to keep that in mind. So let me know what you think down in the comments. If you liked this video or found it helpful, be sure to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel.

18:14 The video wasn't that bad, I was expecting something worse, because she does seem pretty fake. I've never seen any of her videos, but she sometimes appeared in my recommended list on YouTube, which is why I found this video. The title seemed interesting, which is why I reviewed it.

18:37 Really the main point that I was making is that if you don't find the guy attractive or the girl then it's just not gonna work out anyway no matter what date you go on or what interests you have in general. You can go on a date which you like or dislike, but then you meet each other again, and it turns out that you both really enjoy football, but then, of course, that's not gonna hold you together. It's just a man-made sport, some kind of interest. It's nothing. It literally changes nothing. If that's what keeps you together, then you're always gonna split up eventually. Nothing like that can keep two human beings together. What keeps you together naturally, the strongest bond is when you both have children right away at a natural age and you keep making children.

19:35 There's absolutely nothing on this earth that's ever going to break you apart. It doesn't matter who you vote for in an election. It doesn't matter in general what you think about politics. It doesn't matter what sports you like.

19:53 It's all irrelevant. All hobbies, interests, because what matters is that you find each other attractive, you created children together, and you love each other, you love the children, the children love you, and there's just nothing that's ever gonna break this apart. The problem is that people have children very late today, after they had already other relationships, And they do sometimes base their relationships on interests, even though of course that cannot last, and they know that, whether it lasts for weeks, months, or sometimes even years. It's nonsense, especially if it's related to something such as your job. You both have a similar job, or even worse, you work for the same company, and then one of you leaves the company because you don't agree with

20:48 what the boss is doing or you don't agree with the aim of what the company is producing.

20:59 If that would break you apart, it would have been a nonsense relationship anyway. Then you were together because it was convenient, you married because of finances. Whatever the case, it was never a real relationship, because a real relationship is based on attraction and children reproduction.

21:21 Still, it wasn't such a bad video, even though it's all irrelevant. Thanks for watching.