Casey Zander Knows Exactly What Women Want 😉 @Casey Zander

Watch on YouTube · 2024-07-06 · 27 min

0:00 Yo, what's up? A lot of you have been asking me to review a video by Casey Zander. The video is called Women Only Crave Attention from Pre-Selected Masculine Men.

[video] 0:10 Am I the type of man that a woman would want attention from?

0:16 No, you are not. You look below average.

[video] 0:25 Okay, ask yourself this question. Actually, ask yourself this question like one more time.

0:30 Am I the type of man that a woman would... Just look in the mirror. What else do you need?

[video] 0:35 ...want attention from? See, we have a huge issue right now going on. And the issue is that majority of men today have zero options. Majority of men today don't know what women find attractive. And majority of men do not know how to level up their own sexual market value. So that way, beautiful, attractive, amazing women that you want also want you back. This is something that has taken me over 10 years to master and figure out. So it all comes down to this one question. This one question that men today refuse to ask themselves. And the question is, am I the type of man that a woman would want attention from? Because we hear this today, we hear these things like women want attention or women love attention or women gain attention from a lot of different men on social media and whatnot. And the truth is this happens, but men never take a step back and ask themselves, am I the type of man that a woman would want attention from? This is very important to understand because...

1:21 It's a pretty good question, actually, except that he will probably give a delusional answer as to what kind of men women are looking for. But we'll see. I'm open.

[video] 1:32 The title of today's video is Women Only Want Attention from Pre-Selected Masculine Men, and I'm going to explain something to you. Majority of the attention that women get today from men, see this is the funny thing, you guys all think women have tons of options. When I go on dates with beautiful women, you start to see in a very quick...

1:49 The way he says it already, when I go on dates, that means that he's having multiple dates. No matter how often it is, it means that he doesn't have anybody who actually wants to be together with him to create a family with. That means that women don't find him attractive. It means that he has dates, maybe one night stands now and then, especially if the girl is insecure, needs some kind of validation. But if you're going on dates, then it's not working. If it actually works out for you, why would you need multiple dates? Going on multiple dates, if you're having dates, not one date, then it means that it's not working. Why would you then take advice from this guy?

[video] 2:31 ...that they actually don't have very many options, especially from options that they actually want or especially from options that they consider attractive. Meaning the men that are giving them attention or outreaching them do not have the masculine characteristics ...and personality standards that women are looking for, so then I had to take a...

2:47 Yes, exactly. Women are looking for personality standards. Yeah. ...set back over the years and say, okay, so what is it that women want? Let me explain. Majority... They want a good personality. Yeah.

[video] 3:01 The attention that she gets holds no weight because she obtained it easy, and it also holds no value. And on top of that, he is just overall unattractive. So this begs the question, well, what makes that guy attractive so he could even have options in the first place? I'm going to explain, but it comes down to you actually taking a step back and asking yourself, am I the type of man that a woman would want attention from?

3:24 The way you need to look at this is by looking at any animal on Earth. If you see a lion with great fur, looking really healthy, well-developed, strong, big bones, symmetrical face, pretty much all of them have a symmetrical face, simply because they are well-nourished, they don't eat vegetables with rice the way we do, they eat raw meat, they eat what they are supposed to, would it then matter what personality the lion has? They don't even have language. Humans in nature also don't have language. We communicate through our body language. But my point is that if you would look at a well-developed, healthy human being, no matter if it's a girl or a guy, would you then care about their personality, as in their character? No, it's not animal nature. It's not what we look at.

4:20 We look at how attractive the animal is because of the way the animal physically looks like. If the animal is well developed, then that's all that you want. A woman wants a handsome and tall man with big bones. That's it. But he will try to come up with something else now. It's funny. I love these videos.

[video] 4:41 How can a woman look...

4:56 Look, actually look at personality. In your case, as I said, most likely not, except if she is...

5:17 Very short and I don't know how tall this guy is. Really, I can't tell, can't judge it whatsoever. Point being, except if she's very short and below average herself, she will probably never look at him as if he's a reward, something that she really wants. And even then, it's not very likely.

[video] 5:37 So this is why majority of time when a man gives her attention, she does not reply. Because she doesn't find him attractive. She has no interest in him from the get-go. Yes, exactly, because of what she sees. Yep. Okay, so then we got to ask yourself, well, who does she want attention from?

5:58 Like, what actually... Take any handsome and tall guy. Women will always want them. It's that simple.

[video] 6:08 ...is the masculine characteristics or the masculine archetype that she's looking for. It boils down to just a few things. It's not a lot of things. If you think that you need a million and one different things, if you think you need a big million and one checklist... No, you don't.

6:20 You need good genetics and you need to be well nourished and healthy, ideally, on top of that. Then you're exactly what every woman wants. Every woman. Depending on where you come from, of course, but in your own... Territory, so to speak.

[video] 6:39 How would she be able to tell if you're competent?

7:01 He said that, from what I understood, that women would look at you and see right away if she wants to interact with you in any way. But how would a woman be able to tell if you're competent in some kind of field or whatever? It's impossible.

[video] 7:20 That competency makes him known. So he has recognition, he's known, okay? If he's competent, right?

7:27 There is something to this, but again, it doesn't make any sense the way he said it, because he said that a woman would right away see it, but you can't really see that. You could theoretically see if a lot of women or men flock around somebody taking photos of him, paparazzi, that he's well-known. That could make the woman curious about the guy, but if the guy is short,

7:53 Ugly, if he's simply naturally not attractive, bad genes, then she's still not gonna be into him. She may look, oh, why is everybody taking photos of this guy? And then she looks, it's just a short and ugly guy. Danny DeVito walking, would she then want to get closer to him, to be with him? No, because he's genetically not attractive, that's it. Doesn't matter whether he's competent or known, or we'll see what else he says.

[video] 8:21 If you're the world's best sumo wrestler, you're competent in sumo wrestling, you're now known for sumo wrestling.

8:26 Okay, and women are still not gonna want to be with you, even if you're the best sumo wrestler on Earth. Come on, be real, sumo wrestlers are insanely unattractive. They probably have the most unattractive bodies, not even talking about the face, on Earth. The face is also gonna be huge.

[video] 8:44 If you are the world's best powerlifter, you are now known for powerlifting. You are competent in powerlifting. You are known for that. She wants you.

8:53 Okay? You're a well-known powerlifter. She wants you. Yeah, yeah. Talk yourself into that. Be absolutely delusional.

[video] 9:03 It can be anything. So it comes down to these three things. Competency. As you gain competency, you are now known for something. She doesn't need you to be known for a million things, but she would like you to be known for something. That is being a man and that is finding your masculine archetype. That is finding your true God-given purpose, your own God-given identity.

9:19 That makes no sense, man. Man in nature could be well-known. You could be a... great fighter, as in somebody who leads the tribe, but the way he's talking about it, all of these man-made activities which have no meaning, that doesn't mean anything to any woman, that doesn't mean anything to any man, because it doesn't mean anything to any animal or human being in general.

[video] 9:44 And last but not least would be status and pre-selection.

9:48 Same thing again. It's really all the same. All of the three points are the same and all of them are nonsense.

[video] 9:53 What is status of pre-selection? See, I've heard these terms over the years too. I've watched all the same videos you guys have. I've been doing this my whole life.

10:00 Yeah, you've been doing it for 10 years because you never had success with women. That's why you have multiple dates.

[video] 10:09 years from ages 18 to 28 dedicating every single wait is he is he 28 now i thought he's like 38 if anything really or is he talking about the past the guy looks like he's in his 30s to figuring out and mastering not only the language of women but what is it that makes a guy attractive how do you generate lots of options and what separates the top five to ten percent of guys who have all the options versus the guys who have none

10:36 But they don't have all of the options when it comes to status specifically. Take any of the guys such as Jeff Bezos. The woman divorced him and took billions from him. There's tons of examples of this. All of these guys who are unattractive will be left and used by women. That's what he's really talking about. He's talking about having status. Being competent in some field, then you attract some woman who will use you, use up all of your money, divorce you, and then she will leave because she never cared about you in the first place. Because the only way a woman is going to care about you is if she's biochemically attracted to you. It means that she sees what she's actually attracted to, she falls in love, that's true love. It's not superficial love. Being together with somebody superficially would be being together with them for their status, money, competency and whatever. That's all fake, it's never gonna last.

11:36 If you actually fall in love with a guy, as in you're together with a handsome tall guy, you're never gonna want to leave him. Why would you? He's exactly what you want. Because as an animal, as a woman, You want to be together with a genetically superior man. He doesn't even have to be necessarily superior, but seeing as women compare men to other men today, because there are so many, you can say that he just has to have good genetics. And of course, as I said, if he's healthy and well-nourished, then even better. Why would she ever leave you if that's exactly what women want? She will only leave a guy who she doesn't want. And she doesn't want your status and what you're known for, for being a sumo wrestler or a bodybuilder. How do you not understand that? It's not animal nature. You cannot escape from animal nature.

[video] 12:26 It comes down to these three things. But here's the funny thing about status and pre-selection. This only comes when you're competent at something and you become known for what you're competent at.

12:37 You're stupid and you smile also stupidly.

[video] 12:40 You're going to actually see the amount of work you're going to have to actually do to make yourself a man of value. So let's shift your attention to this piece of the presentation. I don't care how this sounds or how this comes across because this is the truth. You need to start to look at dating as a sport. Okay, just like when you're in the gym and you fail on that last bicep curl, and you're like, oh my god, now I know that, you know, 45 foam curls, I can only do that for eight reps, and I failed.

13:07 Hopefully, I'll get the- Oh my god. This went from being funny to really sad. I feel really sorry for this guy.

13:18 I feel sorry for men in general. You just don't get it. You will probably never understand it. Ten more years will go by. And you will still make videos about how many dates you've had, not realizing that you never actually had one real date.

[video] 13:40 Inside of my new community, I've had guys tell me things like, you know, in the past, they've said like, and it's amazing because I watch these guys grow every day. Like we are over 420 members now. Like these guys are coming together and working to grow. I've heard guys say things like, you know, if I get a first date, there's only a 10 to 15% chance that I'll get a second date with her. And this totally blew my mind because of one thing. Over the years, as I looked at my own dating life, that was me back in the day too. And now it has gotten to the point to where if I have a first date with a girl, there's like an 85 to 95% chance. that we will go out on a second date and she will want to actively try and see me. So you need to start to look at dating as a sport because in sports, there's wins and losses. In dating, there's wins and losses. You're going to have to take losses in your dating life. The failures is what makes the man. The setbacks is what makes the man. The heartbreaks is what makes the man. You learn what not to do. If you learn what not to do, you can learn what to do.

14:29 Because, of course, you have to learn from these mistakes that you're making by...

14:37 acting around her in the wrong way, saying the wrong things, not bringing her enough flowers. It's as if these guys really believe that you can get better One day I will find a girl who really cares about me. If I do everything correctly, it's just not perfect yet. I need to put on a different hat next time.

[video] 15:01 If you look at it as a sport, you're going to be much happier. Because the losses don't affect you as much then, you're like, okay, I'm just... Realistically, you're probably never gonna be happy. ...growing, right? I'm growing through this. So, how do you do this? How do you look at dating as a sport? You look at dating as a sport by doing one thing. You look at masculine to feminine inverses in what they value and relationships. There's two ways to phrase this, value AND relationships or value IN relationships.

15:30 Hey, is it just me or does this guy look almost exactly like that other guy that I reviewed? I don't know what his name was anymore. Yeah, totally, that other Red Bull guy who was also teaching basically the same nonsense.

15:43 It's just all the same. All of these guys look the same.

[video] 15:45 Should I even continue watching this video? I'm probably gonna skip ahead because think about what's going on here. It's a guy.

16:03 who's clearly not attractive enough. I'm not saying this to offend him. It's just reality. It's just nature. What can I say? I'm just looking at an animal who's not attractive enough. What else should I say? Should I lie and say that he will have a chance in the future? He will get older. From what I understand, he also works out, which means that he will age his body even quicker. He will look older even quicker than he's supposed to, which will make him even less attractive. And he's sitting there, writing on this board, trying to figure out what's wrong. All that he has to do is look in the mirror, and he even talked about looking in the mirror. He doesn't even understand what he's supposed to look at. And he would realize why this is all coping and compensating, but he doesn't get it. So instead, he's trying to figure out a way now. How do I get these girls? There has to be something else. It cannot be the way I look like. No, no, no, no, no. I need to replace this. I need to...

16:57 repress myself, go into depression. I just have to shield myself from the truth. It cannot be like this. No, no, no. Red pill, red pill, red pill. That's the truth. Okay. And how do I get her to like me? Okay, I'm gonna now write. I'm just gonna write all of this stuff and just... It's like a mathematician trying to figure out how the universe works and he's just trying to figure it out and he just can't. That's just what you're seeing right there. It's just an absolutely lost guy who doesn't want to accept reality, trying to figure out How to get women is crazy.

[video] 17:36 Different apps trying to talk to girls and they don't reply. You're on social media messaging girls and they don't reply. You go out to, you know, certain events or nightlife with your friends and you'll notice the girls have no interest in you.

17:46 How could girls at a nightclub or whatever have no interest in you if you're attractive? It doesn't make any sense. They are there looking for somebody who's attractive. You hardly would ever even really talk to them. They simply select. They always do anyway, but they're especially simply by looking at you. That's it. And then they will want to dance with you, get closer to you, and so on, if you're attractive. If they are not attracted to you at a nightclub, for example, then you're not attractive. Why would it not be working out for you? If you were attractive, then women would be all over you, especially at a nightclub, because women don't really have many standards there. If you're not even succeeding at a nightclub, then it's never gonna work. Then you need to do something completely else in your life.

[video] 18:38 There's a lot of people who always say things like, oh, you know, it's so hard to date with social media. In my opinion, I think social media shows you exactly what to do versus what not to do. If you look at who women follow on social media, you will understand in a very quick hurry what women find attractive. So look at who women follow on social media.

18:57 A lot of pretty guys with long luscious hair and so on. Models, all of that.

[video] 19:04 Social media, these are the guys that they actually want to sleep with. Okay? I don't care if that hurts your feelings, I don't care if that pisses you off, because a lot of the guys posting things on social media have crafted some sort of personality, some sort of persona, or some sort of identity.

19:19 Yes, yes. It's exactly that. It's their persona. Yeah. That's why women follow them.

[video] 19:26 It says, hey, this is me. And in fact, I'm so confident that this is me, I'm even willing to share it with the entire world. So she looks at that guy and she goes, wow, he must actually know himself. That's a man I want to follow. So look at this.

19:36 Yeah, exactly. The women follow these guys because he must really know himself.

19:44 It's as if he's making a parody of these red pill dating advice guys. This could really be a great parody to actually believe that.

[video] 19:55 Look at who women follow on social media, these are the guys that they actually want to sleep with. Look at some of the archetypes that women typically will follow. Women like to follow athletes, professional athletes.

20:04 Once again, competent... No, if they're good-looking, yes. In general, do women care about sports and athletes? Come on, man, they don't whatsoever.

[video] 20:13 ...at athleticism, known for athleticism, now he has status in preselection...

20:18 This guy is completely delusional. Completely, how can you not see it? It's just really very severe denial. Musicians? Competent? Yeah, good-looking musicians. It has nothing to do with them being musicians. Are women all over Elton John? I don't know many musicians nowadays anymore. I don't follow the media in general. But do they generally follow bad-looking musicians? If yes, then they're not really gonna be looking at their photos and they actually really just want to hear when the latest song is gonna come out. That's it. But if they actually look at the photos and videos, then it's just because of the way they look like. That's why people like Justin Bieber and whatever all of those people.

[video] 21:08 Known, now has status of pre-selection. Pilots. Competent, known, status and pre-selection comes.

21:14 Yeah, I always hear women say how great pilots are. They're all following those pilots on social media.

[video] 21:23 Business owners, doctors.

21:25 Yeah, exactly. Women are following business owners and doctors on social media. Totally. You always see and hear that.

[video] 21:32 A man with a true identity and purpose and path. Okay? So, athletes, musicians, pilots, business owners, doctors, here's just a few, I created like a quick list of five.

21:44 I'm sure there's more.

[video] 21:46 But this is five overall archetypes or masculine archetypes that women consider attractive. Why? Why do they find this attractive? Because of identity. The man knows himself. You as a man, and this is like the highest level of game. Like those of you who want real game beyond going out to the nightclub and saying this line, the woman is looking at who you are as a man from the inside out. She's looking at everything. She's looking seriously at everything. Who you are as a man needs to actually become someone or something. So this now translates into status and competency. So let me give you an example inside of my brotherhood, inside of my community that I created that we now have over 400 guys in.

22:26 Brotherhood, private group, he charges men to join it. Yeah. It's his business, I get it, I totally get how these guys work. Super. Yes, pay him for your freedom.

[video] 22:52 Of course, a great sales pitch at the end of the video. Right on, man. You know how to do it.

[video] 23:22 And the title was God's Timing. He goes, I was let go of my job today. Hopped on a call with the CEO and he shared how the company as a whole is struggling to make a profit. The guy inside of my community goes, he thanked me for the three years I have served and gave me his number to use for reference. Now here's the cool thing. He goes, before I experienced the layoff, I managed to land three clients from what I was taught in Freedom Academy. He goes, took a skill I had and went out in the field to obtain clients. If you shift your eyes all the way down to the last couple sentences, He says, I accept that God's timing is perfect and to leave everything to him. Tend your garden, build your relationship with the most high. See, this is what happens. When guys actually start to get on their own path, when guys actually develop their identity, when guys develop their own masculine persona and who they were called to be so they can triple down on these three things, developing competency, becoming known for something, which leads you to having number three, which is now you have status and preselection. Well, guess what? you start to win. So when I give guys freedom academy, it's like for once they're never submissive to a boss ever again. Number two, they actually figure out who they are as a man. They figure out their own personality. They figure out why they have value to them and how they can actually do good in life with that, which leads them to number three, they actually start to win.

[video] 24:21 So when you put everything together, that now makes up who you are as a man, okay?

24:25 That means that if I pay him and I join the Freedom Academy, then I will become a true man at last. Wow! Where can I join? Where's the link? This is why you don't have options, because you don't have life direction. This is why you don't have options, because you don't have life success. This was a lot funnier than I imagined. It was pretty sad in between, but what can you do? You're just looking at an animal that's completely lost, He's living in absolute denial. He doesn't want to admit, because of the way he looks like himself, that it is about looks. He proved it several times himself throughout the video, but he still tries to make up reasons as to why it has to be something else. It just has to be your status and your competence, what you're known for. You just have to become a better sumo wrestler.

25:25 It's just not enough yet. You have to eat more, become fatter, go to Japan and become a very well-known sumo wrestler. If she doesn't like you yet, it's just because you're not a good enough sumo wrestler yet.

25:43 It's sad because... People actually watch this and they are just as deeply in denial as them. They probably also have these boards at home trying to figure out what it could be. It cannot be the way I look like. It can be because I'm not attractive enough. That's why she's not interested in me at the nightclub, even though they literally only Look at the looks. No, no, no. It has to be something else. And then I find this guy. Oh, he also has this whiteboard. He must have it figured out. He's talking with so much confidence. He has all of these people in his freedom group who are supposedly succeeding. Maybe I should join the group. I gotta watch all of his videos. I gotta figure out what it is. Because when I look in the mirror, that can't be it.

26:34 It can't be natural human attraction, natural animalistic attraction. It can't be that it's the same for us humans as it is for every animal on Earth. We simply look at who is attractive and we want to reproduce with them, the most well-developed, genetically gifted, most nourished, healthy animals. No, no, no. It's not as if that's always how it has been and that's how it always will be. No, it's about how well-known you are and how much of a good sumo wrestler you are, or a bodybuilder, how much you can bench press. Are you the best one at your gym? If not, then you need to become the best one. Then this girl, who's also lifting weights, will at last want to be with me. It's really sad, though, that this kind of a severe delusion actually happens today.

27:31 It's only because of how severely removed from nature we are that people actually try to somehow make sense out of their lives, even though there is no sense to it. Crazy. Thanks for watching.