Catfished: Guy Ignores a Million Red Flags 🚩 @Catfished

Watch on YouTube · 2024-07-27 · 25 min

[video] 0:00 yo guys i'm going to review a video called my mom thinks my girlfriend is a romance scammer he's like oh yeah well i'm an influencer i needed someone to talk to that might be able to relate this man wants to know the truth about his internet girlfriend gorgeous like dark blue eyes i believe Yeah, they completely fit together The gullible Canadian Same old story I'm a social media influencer, I'm on YouTube And all I do is just talk about my daily journey of what I'm doing to get myself through the day Got the fan back as it is, so...

[video] 0:46 Looks like maybe tomorrow we could try and go up there and search.

0:54 This is really sad.

[video] 0:56 Getting some money in again. You know, I just advertise, you know, what my life is about. and mix this up a little bit. Entertain people the best I possibly can about what I'm currently going through. It's a long process, but you know what? I enjoy it because I have subscribers. Well, they keep me going, you know what I mean? Because they know where I'm at. My history with women is not the best. I've ever seen a relationship I've had, I've been cheated on. And instead of just dumping me, they cheat, right? Until I catch on. I have been married. You know, she was a nice person. We still talk. We're still friends. We got a son together who's actually getting married. I think what it was, we just weren't mature enough to see who we really were at the time because I was only in my 20s.

1:35 After going through a divorce, Ryan decided... Women cheat on you because they don't care about you. If she would, then she would at least tell you that she wants to break up. Of course, you can argue that they don't want to hurt your feelings, which doesn't make any sense because they are doing that anyway, or that they are afraid of telling you that, or who knows what, but at the end of the day, if they would really care.

[video] 1:57 wasn't even looking at dating to be honest with you i was just referred to it by a friend of mine who tried it out and he said it worked out for him and he's like i think you really need to find someone i'm like well i agree but where do i start i've been out of it i've been out for so long and so he told me about tiktok dating and i was like the tiktok was just i don't consider as a dating site i just consider it as a site for people out there if you're gonna meet i'm just an internet influencer and my bio just put my put my youtube channel on there there was nothing to it and just A bunch of videos showing me cooking and stuff like that, which can be attractive. The ladies with you can admit that. And I think that might have been what attracted this person to me.

2:34 I've never heard of this before. There's actually guys out there who believe that... Them cooking attracts women? That that's attractive? Wow, this is... Beyond Blue Pill. This is something else. I don't even know what that is.

[video] 2:52 No.

2:59 Girls are attracted to your looks the same way you are attracted to the looks of girls. That's why you liked her, probably. We'll see what he says. Obviously. But we can hear it from him, for sure. Nobody would write to you because of the way you cook. And if a girl like that writes to you, then something is up. But when you don't realize that when you really believe that you cooking food attracts somebody, then you could actually believe that this is exactly why Blackpool content is so important. This would save all of these guys. All of them would right away know, oh, okay, scammer. Because you would know that nobody like that would be into you right away.

[video] 3:43 Good, how about you? And she was like, fine, good. What do you do for a living? Told her I'm a good worker. And she's like, oh yeah, well, I'm an influencer. I'm like, well, what kind of influencer? She goes, oh, digital. Well, obviously very attractive. I don't know if it's just blonde or blue.

3:56 How could you believe that somebody like this is into you? I just don't get this kind of delusion. It's just so beyond blue pill, as I said.

[video] 4:11 Blonde or whatever it is, with wavy hair. Gorgeous, like, dark blue eyes, I believe it would be. Right? Oh, she's got a gorgeous smile. Straight teeth. I've never seen anything like that before. She really looks...

4:21 That's the purpose, that's how they scam you, that's how they get you. In case you don't understand, a human being, the body doesn't understand what the internet is or what photos are. There's no such thing in nature, which is why when this guy saw her, it's as if his body believes that he's seeing her in real life. And you fall in love like that. Love is when you look at somebody, you find them attractive and you want to reproduce with them. He literally fell in love with this girl and because in his mind she was actually talking to him on the internet, but your mind doesn't understand that, his mind really tried to convince itself that this girl is into him, that he has a chance with her. And it was as if a dream came true, obviously. It's a dream, it's not reality.

[video] 5:15 That's interesting because there's been some studies released about this, that we find attractive people more trustworthy. Which makes a lot of sense, naturally. You're better developed, you're healthier.

5:41 If you're ugly and underdeveloped, then of course you would not trust somebody like that as likely.

[video] 5:48 The stuff that she was wearing, there was nothing illegal or anything like that. It was just like being a lingerie model kind of thing. And I thought, holy smokes, this is nice. She said her birthday just passed, she turned 29. Should I or should I not really try to take the risk on this? Just talk.

6:03 29 and he's what, 40 or something? Oh, yeah.

[video] 6:12 I decided to take the risk. The conversation really sparked up a little bit with that birthday was attitude. Well, what do you want? Why are you talking to me like that? And I was like, talking to you like what? That went on for about three to four days. And then finally she realized I'm not going to be one of those psychopaths that are on the internet. I'm actually a down to earth person. And then she started really telling me about what she was really doing.

6:33 Oh my God. That's so... She probably a he behind the screen got him. Oh, I thought that you're like every other guy Oh, no, you're actually the sweet guy. That's what I want a guy with a good character Dirty side of things.

[video] 6:46 I don't really want to say the wording because it's the internet I try to get myself the back off But I felt like that she seems to be kind of person that really just needs someone to help her up to move in the right direction And so that's what really attracted me to her and the way she was responding, not just her profile, but the way her response was, it was like she was reaching out for help. And that's when she started talking about, you know, eating groceries or needing to feed her dogs. And then I asked her for her pictures. She's like, okay, I've got one coming to you. Just wait for an hour.

7:16 It's sort of like prostitution. She sends you a photo, you get something more, and for that you pay her. It's a light version of prostitution.

[video] 7:28 I was like, give me a photo. And she sent me a few, right? And it was the cowgirl stuff. And I was like, okay, well, if this can work out, maybe we could travel around Canada. You know, we could go around making money. She's like, yeah, I can help you out with doing your deliveries, stuff like that. Go to parks and whatnot. So there was a huge plan was being done to try and travel make money and see everything out there. Cause life is just too short and bring her dogs along with us. And I was like, okay, cool. See the gorgeous sceneries of Canada, maybe, maybe even the U S right. But when, apparently when she had her phone before, so they supposedly got broken and she, she tried to do a video chat. She's seeing me, but I couldn't see her. Right. And she's like, I don't know what I'm doing on this. I've never done this before. Well, it's not that...

8:08 Wait, she does only fence, but she has never... Like, she doesn't understand how to use a phone or what?

[video] 8:14 He just activated it, right? And when she was talking, it was a voiceover. I studied truth, and the truth seems crazy. This video was sent to Ryan by Jessica to prove to him that she was real. He was thrown off by something about the AI video, but he still continued to communicate with her. And Ryan was thrown for a loop when he found revealing images of Jessica all over the internet. My mom was like, just be careful. My mom doesn't know the internet. You know, she's like, well, who is this person? What's she trying to do? She asks questions because she sees what I've been through in the past and she doesn't want to see me get hurt again. And she's like, did she ask for money? And I go, yeah, but I kept on turning her down. I'm not going to budge, even though I have, well, I have a few times, I'll be honest with you. My mom just said, no more. You don't want to be any more hurt than you already have been. She said that if this person ends up being real, then she would like to see me to be happy. If this works out, if she's real, then sure, I'd like to meet her. Because they could compare backgrounds. Like, you know, bad laundry stuff and stuff like that.

9:11 This makes no sense. When you look at both sides, it just makes zero sense. Just zero. Why would she message you?

[video] 9:21 And then she started talking about, within the next couple of years, we could get married. I was like, a couple of years, eh? Interesting, okay. And then she put on her profile, I have a fiance. Yeah, so every single day has been about that, but lately it's been a little bit more heated regarding money. It turned from being kind of like a romance to trying to help support her. The first time was for a Christmas gift. She's like, it's Christmas.

9:50 It's so interesting that this is still happening. I watched a documentary about this, of these guys from, I believe, Nigeria and Ghana, some other African countries, where the guys act as if they are some handsome French guys or whatever. They message these German women. way out of their league, older women, it doesn't make any sense whatsoever, but they really want to believe this, because it's really a dream for them to have somebody attractive, attracted to them. It's understandable, totally, human nature, but it's just because of the internet, this is actually possible today, and as I said before, you just see them, you see the photos, your brain doesn't understand what the internet is, and you just believe that they are there, you fall in love with them, and you do basically everything for them. There was this case of a woman who sent a guy, I believe it was almost 100,000 euros, and of course he never came, it's as if he's...

10:47 plane didn't work or whatever and he needed to fix this and that and in the end it was almost a hundred thousand. All of her money. Just because she dreamt of him coming over to see her at last. That's how much she wanted him.

11:04 That kind of proves to you that money obviously doesn't exist, as I always say, but it just means nothing to people because all that they want is to be together with somebody, for somebody to find them attractive, they find them attractive back, and then you're together. No matter how old you are, they just always want this.

[video] 11:20 You could give your girlfriend a Christmas gift. She's like, well, how am I supposed to do that? Originally, she was asking me for a Steam card, and then she was asking me for a Google card. She kept on going and going and going. I tried changing the topic.

11:31 A gift card also. It's so easy for these scammers to use it, to do something with it. It's just so typical, but yeah, it's really messed up.

[video] 11:40 She kept on saying, so are you going to send the money or what? She started getting blunt about it. I did cave. I said, okay, well, here's 40. She gave me a PayPal address.

11:48 So I figured, what the hell? $40, but then there's other guys, a few 40s, then some hundreds and thousands here and there probably also. It adds up if you have a lot of guys.

[video] 11:59 So we threw the local one, and it actually went through. That's basically how it worked, though. Originally, it was just for Christmas, and then the second time, it was for probably get heels to go to a gift...

12:10 It may actually get crazy in 10, 20 years if AI becomes even more advanced. Imagine that. This will be crazy. People will actually be able to maybe sort of live video call with people and actually act as if they are a girl. It will look more or less real, at least a lot more real than that was. Jesus.

[video] 12:39 a pastry store in her town. It was just basically, can you do me a favor, babe? I was like, sure, what? She goes, can you send me $40? I'm like, well, what for? She goes, well, I want to go up there and buy some heels for New Year's. Don't you already have heels? She goes, I don't like those kind of heels. I want something that's more respectable to be out there with. And so she convinced me. So I was like, okay, fine. You want the heel stuff? And so I went to her e-transfer. And she's like, oh, you sent me this much? I'm like, well, you said this much, so I give you that much. No big deal. And, you know, she's like, okay, I got it, thank you very much. I was like, yeah, no problem. And, you know, she kept on saying, oh, I love you so much, and this and that, and I was like...

13:11 They get aggressive when they don't get the money, if she doesn't want to send it, and then once they get it, oh, I love you so much, because they're so glad, they're so full of joy that they actually scam them. Oh boy, yeah. This is just what happens kind of naturally. Dumb, gullible people who are weak or not good looking get used by not necessarily better looking people. We don't know how they look like, but they are smarter, that's for sure.

13:42 You can't even, of course, 100% talk about intelligence here, because this guy is also emotionally insanely involved. This emotion... Him wanting to be together with somebody who's attractive, him wanting her to like him, is just way stronger still. He doesn't seem very bright. I'm not trying to offend this guy, it's just what it is.

[video] 14:07 No, I decided to stay home. You know, I caved in a little bit, right? Just because I just felt like being nice. After that, she was talking about something to do with trying to get a flight.

14:19 Yeah, exactly, this is the typical one, a flight, because a flight costs more, and then something won't work out. He will buy the flight or give her the money, but she will not come because of something, it's genius.

[video] 14:32 And that was actually, wasn't that long ago, she's been, about a month ago or so, she's been saying, well, I want to come up there and see you. Oh, well...

14:39 Sometimes if these people notice they can't get any more, they're just getting some $400, whatever. He didn't say how much he sent. I think it was maybe a bit much, which is why he didn't want to say it. Maybe he feels embarrassed. Then their last chance is to get at least a few hundred thousand, maybe even two thousand sometimes for a flight if it's far away.

[video] 14:58 How much can you give? how much do you need you know look i don't just give out anything i need to know exact amounts i need to know what you have so i know what i can afford to give i need this much okay so 100 bucks so i was like okay done deal and then she goes oh um i'm kind of short huh she goes yeah i'm kind of short that price went up i went ahead and did that and she goes i'm short 180 dollars Ryan ended up sending money for plane tickets, but Jessica would never show up. At this point, she had asked for gifts, shoes, multiple plane tickets, and even a phone. This is when he reached out to us to verify who this person in these images really was.

[video] 15:47 He hasn't seen any red flags. Oh my god. She is real, it's just not the one you're talking to. You're talking to some guy, probably.

[video] 16:11 Okay, let's keep on talking, then, and let's, you know, book a time to meet. I mean, let's not talk to a legit person. Alright, Seekers, it was time to get to work. We wanted to answer all of Ryan's questions. Who is this person in these photos, and is the profile he's communicating with valid? Ryan was able to send us chats he had with Jessica, a video she sent to him, her email, and tons of photos.

16:27 Yeah, probably just some Instagram OnlyFans girl.

[video] 16:30 So we began to look into everything. After a day of running searches, our team felt we were ready to give him the truth. What's making you feel like it could be real? It's not as if he's talking to a real so-called person.

16:47 He is, but it's more so that he wants to believe that she's real. That's what it's really about. It's so hard to let go. I don't blame this guy.

[video] 16:57 I don't know, it's just the way she talks.

17:01 What's your intuition telling you? The guy who's behind the screen most likely talks this way because he's an expert scammer. He knows exactly how to talk to guys like you.

[video] 17:11 Oh my god, oh my god, man.

17:30 Oh my God, this is so crazy. So, if some ugly woman or even average would have messaged you, who's like your age or 40, 50 years old, whatever, would you have sent her money? Come on, man, you only send her money because of the looks.

[video] 17:46 I personally prefer just the personality, right? Looks aren't everything.

17:49 I have been with... Yeah, the personality of some text messages. I just... Oh my God, oh my God.

[video] 18:00 People that aren't the most attractive, but I look at the way that they look at me as a person. Don't get me wrong, like, seeing her as attractive, you know, that can play a role. On TikTok, that's originally what attracted me, was like, wow, she's gorgeous.

18:12 I'm pretty sure I can see down there what attracted him.

[video] 18:16 Oh, this is so bad. This is so bad. It turned even worse.

[video] 18:31 But in this situation, I'll admit, you know, she's gorgeous You know, that's the first thing you're gonna get to see as a person of what they look like And you want to reach out to them to see what their personality is gonna be like To see whether or not you could continuously keep on talking No, you reach out to them because you want to f*** them, that's it I've never heard her voice, no, there's been no video chat, no nothing, so it's all been text So I can only go by her pictures Well, the first thing that we want to talk about is this video that you sent us. It's like a selfie of her and she's just talking to the camera.

[video] 19:03 We were able to locate where that video came from. When we looked into it, we found that that video that you received was actually altered from the original video. Did you sense something off about the video? I did. I did, right away, because the... Yeah.

19:20 What? It was the fakest video I've ever seen.

[video] 19:22 Voice was off. And when she was talking, you could tell it was also a partial...

19:27 I think about it. This is so, so sad, because... You can send somebody a completely fake video, but they still want to believe it. The belief, wanting her to be real, wanting this girl to be attracted to you is so, so strong that it just beats everything.

[video] 19:50 And yeah, right away I was like, what? I was like, what are you sending me here? You really think I'm that stupid? I wasn't born yesterday.

19:58 But you kept talking to her and sending her money.

[video] 20:00 And she goes, well, it must have been just some kind of a glitch. I don't know what happened there. It shouldn't have happened that way. I was like, yeah, okay. So I responded, look, I use video editors. I'm not stupid. I know how it works. But then I also know that sometimes there can be software glitches because I use Filmora 12.

20:14 Yeah, then why didn't she send a new video simply?

[video] 20:18 And mine has done that, right? And my subscribers would reach out to me and say, hey, look, man, your voice is off. I was like, oops, so... What we did was we played the video, we took screenshots throughout the video, and then ran reverse image searches, and then we were able to find where this video came from, and it came from a TikTok account.

20:36 So what this person... They use TikTok to lure people to OnlyFans.

[video] 20:41 They ran it through an app. There's a ton of them that you can get on your iPhone or on Android and you can just alter the photo and make it say whatever you want. So this one was taken and probably put into like a $5 or $10 app that you can get on your phone. You can just type in some words and make this person, you know, say whatever you want. On the original video, if you watch this one, it's just a little more natural with the movement. Yeah, I see what you mean. so we looked into the email we didn't find any information there because it was either newly created or it hasn't been linked to any social media profiles that's right this person that you're talking to we can find anything that imagine if the guys behind this are watching this video they're probably laughing themselves to death pointed to this woman Chloe Nicole which is the real person in these images being behind asking you for money or writing you every single day this person that you're speaking to is no doubt a romance scammer The real person, Chloe Nicole, has nothing to do with this. Breanne was able to locate her OnlyFans, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok. She's a very public person and all of her accounts are very active.

[video] 21:40 I'm sorry to say, man, but this isn't real.

21:47 You can just tell how sad he is. Even after everything, he really wanted to believe it. I know that he's going to say now that whatever, he doesn't care, but this is going to be a super horrible time for him.

[video] 22:00 I was testing the waters the whole time. And she sent me so many different kinds of images, even her Playboy ones and everything. I was like, whoa! And it attracted me, but I was very skeptical from the start. I actually showed my mom the stuff because of her background. Immediately my mom said, red flag, just like what you guys just said. Ryan, you're young. I don't see how you would have- Is he actually young?

22:20 What does she mean by young?

[video] 22:21 Any problems getting out there and dating someone locally that you can meet face to face?

22:27 He could meet somebody.

[video] 22:29 We talk about this all the time. There are a lot of scammers out there on the internet that are posing to be someone that they're not. And you can get out there, you can go find somebody locally or in your neighborhood that you can meet face to face and that you can talk to and date. Have you explored any of that? I tried the Harmony Eric Dion's and I was running into the same red flags everywhere, right? So I just figured this is the last straw. I think I'm gonna be taking quite a break for quite a while after this, you know, until things get sorted out on my end. And I guess, you know, things out here are pretty hectic here in Canada right now. I might try and go for a long vacation. I'm not gonna run into a corner and start crying about it or anything like that. I'm just gonna move forward and block her on absolutely everything possible.

22:59 I'm just gonna stay single. I like how he says her still.

[video] 23:02 For a while, you know, just move on in life and try to enjoy it. Look out for my mom and try and move forward.

23:06 Just don't give up, man. There's somebody out there for you. All right. Yeah, there's somebody out there for you. Just be yourself.

[video] 23:13 I never give up, you never know what tomorrow holds, right? It's a whole new ballgame, right? So... You know what, I just love you guys' content, you know?

23:20 Like, you guys have given me so much, you know... And the guy actually watched the content? He knew about it? Oh, that's why people watch it and then join them. Wow. And he still... You could watch the video, but he still fell for it. That's pretty crazy.

[video] 23:37 Motivation towards things, you know, learning how to look out at things, stuff I've never noticed before. You guys have done an awesome job with everyone.

23:43 It was so incredibly obvious, you should have known then.

[video] 23:47 You guys did the extensive research, helped out, now I know what I gotta do. Whoever watches you guys, use them! You know, because you guys rock. In my view, you guys really do.

23:55 They are doing a good job, but then again, does it help these people if they watch it and still fall for it? Or did he discover them later?

[video] 24:02 Thank you, Ryan.

24:03 Thank you, thank you.

[video] 24:04 I always try, you know, if I was down on myself about everything, my mom's next door should be pounding on the door telling me to smarten up. Have a good one. Alright, thanks, Ryan.

24:13 Alright, this was pretty sad. Pathetic, really. I don't say that to offend a guy, but of course it is. If he would have watched some Blackpill content, then he would have known right away. It's just completely impossible that a girl like this is gonna message you. It's just impossible. It can only be a scam. If you would be a handsome guy in your 20s, 30s yourself, sure, it can happen, but... This was just the opposite of how a guy who she would message would look like. And as I said, it's probably not even a she behind the account anyway, but the actual girl, Chloe, or whatever her name is. She's probably not much into dating anyway, seeing as she's on OnlyFans. What kind of a guy wants to be with a girl like that?

25:13 Those kind of guys, for sure. Yeah, they wouldn't care. But nobody who in any way respects himself or even respects his girlfriend or is looking forward to a happy and healthy life. That can only bring you misery in the end. That's like being together with a prostitute. It is the same. It's interesting that this is still going on, but online today, which in a sense is easier, because back in the day, actual girls used to do this to guys. Get money from them, use them. It's a super old scam, whereas now guys can hide behind the screen, act as if they are girls, use photos of attractive girls and use guys this way. But it's still the same old scam essentially. Thanks for watching, guys.