Do Looks Matter? Can You Improve Your Looks? @Brae

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[video] 0:00 hey guys as requested i'm going to review the video called looks don't matter in quotes by the channel brah looks don't matter is a statement that modern society has projected onto me for as long as i can remember in movies where the skinny ugly nerd wins the girl over from the stupid mean chad in books tv shows my teachers even with the role models around me statements like beauty is in the eye of the beholder or it's what's on the inside that counts were repeated to me over and over again richard ramirez I pretty much believed every bit of it, and it was ultimately what led me to struggling with women in my teens. Hitting the gym was a foreign concept to me. Eating healthy and taking care of myself? Who needs that when you have a wonderful personality, I think to myself. When I was in high school, I remember seeing the tall handsome guys snatch the women that I desired, and there were many times where I would just be the second option, sometimes even the third option to these girls, while the charming handsome guys would date them and explore each other's bodies. all while I was sitting at home playing video games and jerking off most of the time. It was honestly pathetic and something needed to change.

[video] 0:59 And so as many of you know, when I was 17, I fully took the plunge to improve my circumstances.

1:04 I was tired of the way I looked and how it would- The thing is that I guess he believes that he started looking better because he started working out, even though obviously growing out the hair already hid some of the flaws and made his face look more appealing to women. The workouts were unnecessary. Of course, uh... Before that, he did look abnormally skinny-fed, which isn't a normal state for a male to be in, but you also don't need to work out that much, because these guys who are into looks maxing don't realize that the more you work out, the faster you're going to age, and by the time you're 30, you're not gonna look good anyway. It doesn't matter how much muscle you have, it's not appealing to women anyway.

[video] 1:46 make me feel inside. And so I said, screw it. I'm going to at least try to take care of myself because this is no way.

1:52 Yeah, but that didn't look in any way attractive for a woman. His body, Arnold Schwarzenegger's looks disfigured. He looks deformed. Women find him disgusting for the most part.

[video] 2:03 I was not going to let my body decay anymore. I wanted to actually become attractive to these women. I wanted to actually feel confident in myself. So the first thing I started to implement in my life was the gym.

2:15 You can only feel naturally confident if you're good looking. You can't feel confident because you go to the gym. It's an illusion. You're trying to talk yourself into being confident. The more weights you lift, the more confident you become in your head, but not in reality, because you will look older and more worn out.

[video] 2:35 I got pretty good at that. I started eating clean, fixing my acne and I was seeing great results with my face as well.

2:42 Yeah, and the acne going away also makes you naturally more appealing and that's exactly why for the most part you show your face because the face is what's actually attractive to women. It's not the rest of the body. That's why the face is what everybody should be focused on.

[video] 2:56 Suddenly things, they really started to click for me. Female attention went through the roof. I started getting more attention from the ladies. I always noticed girls staring at me and even approaching me and asking for my number sometimes. And if I was the one to approach, it was almost always a yes. And that was far from the sorry I have a boyfriend that I always got accustomed to hearing all the time. The results on dating apps also skyrocketed. I don't use these dating apps anymore, but I think this still applies here. I went from matching and getting ghosted by, you know, the bigger girls and low quality women to actually matching with women I was finally attracted to. and they wanted to talk to me. It felt great. Body language was another thing I noticed as well. Before my transformation, people, when interacting with me, they were often quite neutral or even negative in their demeanor. It felt like people didn't want to be around me, but after I took the dive towards heavily improving my appearance, things completely-

3:39 Yeah, again, the face. It's just the hair for the most part and getting rid of the acne. It's not as if your face overall really changed. You became a bit older, the face changes slightly, but you always already had these genetics and then the bad photos that he shows are in bad lighting and then the good ones are the ones with a lot of sunlight on him and of course he automatically looks better. It was all about the face, of course. Of course you will feel better if people are going to notice you, especially women. That's natural. We want this attention. We want to feel like people want us.

[video] 4:16 It changed for me. Even though I was acting and speaking in pretty much the same way, not changing much of my personality at all, both genders were so much more invested into conversations that I'd have with...

4:27 You can't really essentially change your character. It comes naturally and is developed by the way you grow up and the way people around you treat you. If you're good-looking, people are going to treat you good and that's why you're going to feel confident about yourself. If you grow up and people bully you, for example, then you're not going to be confident, of course. And really, it's something that you can change. You can, of course, try to learn game, how to approach women and act as if you're confident. Maybe you will get a one-night stand. Of course, afterwards, they will realize that you're not actually naturally confident, and that's when they will leave you.

[video] 5:04 included increased eye contact, more smiling, laughing at jokes that weren't even remotely funny. Hell, even, you know, multiple gas station ladies tried hitting on me after I'd tell a joke, and I'm not even that funny. And I'm here to tell you that this is all what's referred to as the halo effect. It's when you're perceived differently solely by the way you look.

5:25 It's that you're perceived differently and it's also that women essentially don't care about your character or really anything else than your looks. That's why they will laugh when you tell jokes which are not even funny. They essentially don't care. They're just trying to appeal to you. They want you to like them back.

[video] 5:41 characteristics like being loud and energetic. They're more likely to be perceived as annoying if you're an ugly dude compared to a good-looking dude acting the same way, but people would probably just say, he's fun, he's outgoing, and so charismatic. This isn't always the case, but generally, the better you look, the better you are perceived. The point is, looks do matter. And if you're not happy with your appearance, there are things that you can do to change it. It's not impossible to look way better than you do now. Some people will tell you that you should just be happy with who you are, that you should love yourself no matter what. And while that's a nice thing to say, it's not exactly helpful when you're feeling insecure about your looks. So let's debunk some common myths about the statement, looks don't matter. First of all, some people are going to tell you that looks don't matter because it's all about the personality. The thing is, if you look like that, then you're probably not going to be very fun or outgoing anyway. People who are good looking are fun and outgoing.

[video] 6:46 Another common myth is that looks don't matter because everyone has different tastes and what they're attracted to. Well, you know, obviously that has some truth to it. Everyone does have different preferences in what they like, but there are certain traits that are generally attracted to everyone. For example, mostly everyone is attracted to symmetrical faces and clear skin. So even though it's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there are lots of things that you can do to increase your chances of being cons...

7:09 Yes, of course, because if you don't have clear skin, especially if you have pimples, it means that you're sick. And we don't want to reproduce with somebody who is sick. It's obviously naturally off-putting if you have pus coming out of your face.

[video] 7:24 ...considered attractive. The next myth is going to be that looks are just genetic. While this may largely be true, it doesn't take away from the fact that you can make huge progress with improving the way you look, even if you're starting...

7:39 Okay, here's the thing. He didn't actually improve the way he looks because he started working out. He simply grew out his hair, he got rid of the acne, and he also lowered his body fat. I would even argue that women would find him more attractive if he would lose some muscle and simply stay in a... natural, good shape. Just look at how humans in nature look like. That's all that women want. I can guarantee you 100% that women only started approaching him because he grew out his hair. That was really the main thing here.

[video] 8:11 Do you think these dudes... did you think they had good bases to start from? I don't think so, but...

8:16 I guess that he's implying that these are some kind of incredible transformations. Let's go through them. The first guy, obviously the lighting is completely different in the picture on the left. Really, they look the same. I don't see anything. The second one, he looks completely deformed on both photos. What are you trying to show here? Seriously, I don't see it. Again, very different lighting. He did the same as this guy did, who made the video, in his photos. Also, the light again on the side. Dark photo with shade, you always look worse, and then in sunlight you always look better. This is absolute common sense. What is he trying to prove here? He looks just the same, except that again, he changed his hair. The eyes...

9:04 Completely different angle from below and it looks like he even tried to put his eyebrows up and then in the second photo a completely different look. He's trying to look like this, like a predator. Oh my god, that's already kind of delusional even to take that as an example. And I guess this is... Alright, so...

9:29 No difference at all. Can't even see the face. I don't even know what he's trying to show. Again, he grew out his hair. He's wearing a hoodie for whatever reason, probably brainwashed by some guy. Yeah, just the same people, really.

9:49 To answer your question, yes, they already had it. They had the same genes. They already had this face. Nothing changed.

[video] 9:57 They didn't let that get in the way of making great progress. They at least tried to take matters into their own hands. They didn't give up or say, nope, it's all genetics. There's no point in trying. You have to at least try. Now, I know some of you might be thinking, I'm not shallow. I don't judge people based...

10:14 It's not all genetics, but it's what you make out of your genetics. What people don't understand in the luxemaxing and black pill communities is that yes, you can have great genes and even if you eat garbage, you will most likely look pretty good, but If you don't have as good genes and you really want to bring the best out of them, then you have to eat incredibly much raw animal fat, raw organs, a lot of liver, ideally blood if you can get it. And if you want your children to have better genes than yourself and to bring out the best out of them, then that's what you will need to feed them and these people don't understand that food is so incredibly important and if you get enough fat soluble vitamins as a child if you don't then of course you will have all kinds of problems they dream about these great jaws and whatnot when in reality if you don't eat a lot of fatty fish organs drink blood ideally like i said and all of the stuff then of course

11:11 Your jaw isn't going to develop and even if you didn't get to the point that you wanted to, then your children are also not going to, so you can't simply blame it all on genes also.

[video] 11:21 ...on their appearance. And as nice as that is, it doesn't change the fact that we are all human and human nature judges people based on their looks. It's a brutal truth of life that beauty matters. As much as it's important to care about someone as a person and get to know their personality, the reality is that first impressions matter. And if you don't look like you take care of yourself, you're going to give off a bad impression. So, Why do looks matter? Well, for one thing, improving your attractiveness can help you feel more confident. When you feel good about how you look, you're more likely to be more outgoing, take risks, and put yourself out there. That can lead to all kinds of...

11:50 I don't know about taking risks. That would be stupid.

[video] 11:53 ...positive outcomes, from getting multiple dates to landing an interview at your dream job. And by undergoing such a transformation, I don't know why you would want attention from men, but whatever, if that's what you're into. But as far as discipline goes, discipline comes from slavery. Only slaves are disciplined.

12:21 A natural and happy, healthy human being should not and cannot even be disciplined, because it completely goes against human nature. The whole origin of discipline comes from religious people whipping themselves and going through suffering and pain.

[video] 12:37 But beyond just that, taking care of your appearance is a way of showing respect for yourself. Just as women use makeup to feel better about themselves, us men can also do things to look and feel our best. It's a way of signaling to... Yeah, but you don't look the best.

12:51 You look unnatural and only the natural state of a man is attractive to women. That's why women don't find bodybuilders attractive. Yeah, but again you say looking good and then you show a guy in a suit who simply has a handsome face But you don't even see the body and that's exactly what you mean, of course, but I guess you're too deep in denial or it's subconscious. I don't know what's going on here, but you really don't realize that you're showing faces all the time and you know that that's actually what's attractive. But then again, you talk about working out, which isn't actually attractive.

[video] 13:32 You also might be thinking, but what about your inner beauty? Isn't that more important? And obviously your inner beauty and your inner self is important, but the truth is it's not a one or the other situation. you can have both inner and outer beauty. When you start to take care of your appearance, it can actually help bring out the good qualities in the inner you as well. So if you're serious about improving your appearance, it's important to take a holistic approach. This means you should be focusing on both your looks and your mental health.

13:57 I personally made the mistake... You can't really focus on your mental health. The only way you can improve your mental health which is your brain, is if you eat a lot of brain, quite literally raw brain, foods which are high in cholesterol, vitamin D, B12, and so on. That's literally the only way.

[video] 14:15 I'm just focusing on the way I looked and improving that area the most. and it resulted in a bunch of mental health problems down the line. It's slowly getting better now, but having messed up mental health and being attractive can't go hand in hand. Your mind represents your body and face and it will definitely show. So I hope you enjoyed this video and I'll see you on the next one.

14:37 At the end of the video, he admits that he still has mental issues, which is very obvious. He sounds very monotone and depressed. That's because he doesn't eat his natural food. A lot of these people are right about looks and that looks really matter, but they don't realize where looks come from, they don't realize what happens when you're a baby and you eat the wrong foods, and whatever age you are, if you don't eat the natural food that you're supposed to, which is what we eat in nature, we drink blood, eat raw animal organs, muscle meat of course also, raw animal fat, Some fruits in tropical places especially, it's great that they realize that looks matter, but at the same time they believe that they can improve their characters or their mental health by simply thinking about it, watching lectures or stupid YouTube videos or who knows what.

15:32 But they have to realize that if they start eating more naturally, then all of that is going to improve. And even if your own looks won't improve, then at least you will improve the looks of your children, which are you. Your children are a part of you. And indirectly you're going to be increasing your own looks by increasing the looks of your children. Thanks for watching.