Guy Believes That Abusing & Neglecting Women Will Make Them Love You ๐ Severe Delusion ๐ @Hamza
Watch on YouTube ยท 2022-11-29 ยท 22 min
0:00 Yo guys, many of you said that I should review more videos related to the topic of relationships between men and women. This one is called how to find love and build sexual desire in a relationship.
[video] 0:13 You know what Jeffrey wants more than anything else? It isn't video games. It isn't Doritos chili heatwave crisps. Nobody wants that, naturally. It's a girlfriend. Jeffrey can't wait to eventually fall in love and have a girl who even loves him and then they can cuddle and they can spend all of their time together and they can be like best friends and wait, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa. What? Even in Jeffrey's fantasy, his dream girl leaves him? He can't even imagine in total fantasy that any girl would continue to be in love and so sexually turned on by him. That's because he does everything wrong that we're going to cover in this video. Adonis. Adonis navigates his relationship in the most ideal way. You and I have so much to learn from him, and so we're in the bushes spying on his relationship. Come on, bro, let's see how Adonis is with his woman.
[video] 1:00 That's interesting. They don't really seem to talk to each other that much. He's just in a separate room working out and working on his business. He seems so focused on his craft and yet his woman... No girl on earth would care about a guy.
1:11 They wouldn't even get close to them if they would work out, not pay any attention to the girl and focus on a business, which doesn't exist in nature. Maybe it's a joke. I don't know what this video is really about.
[video] 1:20 Seems focused on him. Okay, there he is. He's going out towards her now. Whoa, that's so cute. Instead of just walking in there and just talking to her like she's his friend, he's just went up and picked her up straight away and there's so much sexual chemistry. He's doing something so different from the rest of us. I've experienced a full spectrum of the kinds of relationships you can have. I remember the first like real girlfriend that I had when I was 19 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. We had love and even sexual desire, but then the relationship ended just months later because of a difference in our values. Fast forward around two years and I start dating the...
1:53 A relationship could never end because of different values. Values are just what you've been programmed to believe is right and wrong by religions. There are, of course, no values in nature. Everybody believes the same thing because everybody simply follows nature. And nobody would ever break up with somebody if there even was such a thing as breaking up in nature, because there is no dating in nature also. If they would, for example, say, oh, I believe that this is wrong. And then the other one says, no, I don't agree with that. I want to live my life differently. That would never in a million years happen. So whatever that relationship was based on was nothing. It was empty.
[video] 2:27 The girl who I had like the longest term relationship with and with this girl broke
[video] 2:33 me literally sleeping with other girls she was so like sexually into me like fully submissive down for me whenever i wanted the sexual desire was there the love was there from her side but from me to her i wasn't a very loving guy so imagine this girl is totally in your frame she totally is into you she's so like obsessed with you she is down to meet you whenever literally just it's almost easy for you and you're almost like a dick to her you love her and you're so sexually into her but you're just not loving towards her until eventually years later the relationship eventually ended and it was like quite sad because we had attached to each other but then when i look back to the
3:02 what a surprise all that a girl wants and a guy of course also is attention she wants to know and be sure that your life more or less revolves around her and that you only desire her that kind of a relationship usually lasts a few months i'm actually surprised that it lasted two years or whatever he said this time that i had with this girl i was never even nice to her i'm not saying to be a nice guy but i was never even like loving and appreciative of her and i look back with so much Okay, those kind of girls who want this kind of relationship, which is completely fake and would never happen in a million years in nature, are the ones who have borderline, for example, a lot of mental issues, who basically are so insecure that they feel like they do not deserve to be loved or to be treated well, which is why they run after these kind of guys. They have basically more or less no self-worth left anymore. But that's why the relationship never lasted because it wasn't really a relationship.
4:00 Those kind of girls will always leave you and find new guys and that's how their life will be because they are broken inside.
[video] 4:05 I've been asked this question of like, what's something I regret? This is the relationship that comes to mind. I regret that I was in a relationship for so long with a girl who was nice and great. And you know, like we're not compatible now. It's been a very long time. I'm in a very happy relationship. But like, when I look back now, it's like we were in love and I just wish I kind of showed that to her instead of being too cold and too like, negative and almost hostile towards like i don't even understand why it was like that what's interesting about this relationship that started with so much sexual desire was that i saw the level of sexual desire that she had in me drastically drop from sky high as much as it possibly ever could have been to literally to the bottom where i almost knew that i was more of like a nuisance to her than anything else and imagine that transformation imagine being a girl's like totally
4:48 I don't know this guy, I've never seen his videos, obviously it's hard for me to judge, but I would guess, if I hear something like this, is that he simply didn't love himself, because people who do not love themselves and have a lot of issues like that, they cannot also, of course, express any love. I would hope that that's common sense to most people, which is why he couldn't express his feelings towards her.
[video] 5:09 And eventually you kind of know that she thinks of you more like a chump. It's a very, like, big transformation. Oh, man. I didn't know then what I know now about masculine and feminine polarity. And that phrase is what we're gonna... There is no polarity. ...talk about in this video. Masculine and feminine polarity. If you can understand this term, you'll be able to maintain and even grow love and sexual desire when you get into a relationship. Now, you might be watching this and thinking, wait, like, I'm not in a relationship yet.
5:35 There's no examples of polarity in nature in general. And men and women are, of course, also not polar opposites, as they like to say. Not at all. Men and women are simply human beings who develop differently because of hormones, but at the very start we were the same and we just developed differently. But that doesn't mean that we are still not the same human beings. A man could coincidentally be a woman and a woman could coincidentally be a man. The way a lot of people talk is as if men and women are different species almost. No, we essentially have exactly the same desires. We just want to be loved at the end of the day. There really isn't that much of a difference at all.
[video] 6:11 Masculine energy is what you should have as a man. And yet it is a global problem, especially in the West. And most men don't have that much masculine energy. Most men are way more feminine than they should be. Masculine energy is all about work and progress. And I don't say that you might think, wait, that seems a bit boring. Just trust me when I say a masculine man always feels like he's working. A masculine man always has in mind a mission, an objective and a goal. Always. You can see like those guys who you Okay.
6:57 He just literally described a weak slave, a modern man, as they say, who works. Men don't work in nature. 60 hours a week? Oh my god, oh my god. No girl wants to be together with a guy who works in general anyway. A man in nature would hunt sometimes and provide, but for the most part, he would be there with his family. No girl out there is looking for a man who works a lot. No girl at all. The thing to this sounds like, yeah, well, what else would I do?
[video] 7:28 you might not be purely 100 masculine i'm certainly not but i found that as i've went from maybe about 40 masculine like there was a big point when i was way more feminine than i was masculine so now maybe i'm around 90 masculine i wake up and literally through the entire day more than 90 of the day i'm literally just thinking about work i'm working right now whilst recording this video i'm doing double work by live streaming whilst i like even like one hit of work isn't enough for me anymore it's almost like a drug for me it's like one hit of work isn't enough i've gotta like
7:51 Oh my god, this is the funniest video ever. This guy is an absolute slave and he believes that he's a masculine man, man. I never use this term in my videos, but he is basically what people call a soy boy. Yeah, he just is.
[video] 8:04 All the fucking drug doses and live stream myself recording videos and I'm doing like two work tasks at once. Like that's the level, bro, once you become really masculine and you get this from literally just starting to like care more about work and also I'll explain this one secret technique. Oh my god. Skyrocket. When you become more masculine and you focus more on work and you focus more on your mission and you care more about work and goals. And you'll realize that this is so deeply attractive to women because you've watched those videos before. It's not whatsoever.
8:33 about how to attract women through text and everything what's like the number one technique that they always say it's to not reply that fast isn't it why do you think that's attractive to girls because it's not at all oh my god girls do not like these games whatsoever yes there are a lot of again like i said girls with a lot of mental issues who like to play games but a woman in general does want you to respond and show that you are interested in her and that you like her Only damaged people like to play games. It also goes for guys.
[video] 9:04 Girls aren't really attracted to the guy who's watching a fucking video like that and he's like, okay, I won't reply fast then. Why are girls naturally attracted to a guy who doesn't reply to them fast on text or, you know, a guy who seems kind of a little bit avoidant? Because they're attracted to masculine energy. When you forcefully use these tactics that you see on YouTube, like, ah...
9:17 Masculine energy is when you abuse girls and don't reply to them, even though you want to. Okay, you are interested in a girl and naturally as an actual masculine man what you're gonna do is right away go for her. Right away. You would never in any way be insecure and not respond to her. Where is there any sense to this video? I'm not gonna reply to her message.
[video] 9:42 What you're really emulating is just masculine energy. She thinks you're busy. Women are attracted to busy masculine men who are focused on work. If you set the goal to become more masculine and start to learn
9:52 No wonder no relationship of his ever worked out, really.
[video] 9:55 More about it, and I'll have like a full guide to masculinity pop-up. I did this full one-hour guide. You can go and watch that right now. When you become more masculine, you don't need to play these games. You don't need to act like you're busy on text because you are. You don't need to spend all day with her because, quite frankly, you don't want to. And I know that seems really offensive. What? You don't want to spend all day with your girlfriend. No. How do you feel when I just said that? Are you listening to this right now thinking... Then you're absolutely not into her. Simple. Wait, what? No, he's got to be weird. I can't wait to spend all day with my girlfriend. That's fine if that's your desire, by the way. That's absolutely fine. But if you want to become masculine, the fact that you have this desire shows that you are full of feminine energy that's been implanted to you from birth, from this conditioning that you've had, from...
10:33 implanted into you from birth. Yeah, that makes sense. It's not as if the way you are from birth is how you are naturally as a man. No, no, no, that's been implanted.
[video] 10:43 From your parents, from like the Hollywood movies that you see of the guy who's obsessed over the girl, you've been conditioned to think that the way to like build love and sexual desire is to be her best friend and to spend loads and loads of time, like all the time possible together, to like do everything together.
10:56 Yeah, basically, that's what all women are looking for. Yeah.
[video] 10:59 You've been conditioned that that's the thing to build a good relationship, and yet that's exactly why relationships end. Use common sense for this question. Through the lockdown of COVID, you know, 2020, 2021, imagine all of the couples who are in relationships living together. What do you think happened to their relationships? Just use common sense here, just broadly. What would have happened to the relationships of the couples who were living together through the COVID lockdown? on average they would have gotten worse and a lot of them would have broken up and a lot of them would have lost sexual attraction to each other wouldn't they that's kind of like a common sense thing that is common sense isn't it that a lot of like my relationship did but a lot of people's relationships got worse over the lockdown because we were all stuck in together because we spent too much time together when a man has
11:34 This video is unbelievable. If you cannot spend time with your girlfriend, then you guys do not fit together. A man and a woman can spend all day together if they are mentally healthy. Look, realistically, why do relationships even fall apart? Usually it's because of what he said at the beginning, which is why his first relationship fell apart, because of values. Let's say that you are into Painting a lot and you paint some painting which is offensive to his beliefs Let's say that he's religious in some way and then you say no I don't agree with this painting because it does not align with my religious values or whatever. It doesn't matter But my point is that in nature there is no such thing Nobody has values as such because everybody believes the same and there is of course also no language in nature That's not what relationships at its core are about at all So it is impossible for a relationship to fall apart because you spend a lot of time together.
[video] 12:32 Too much feminine energy. He's tipped to the wrong side of the scale. He becomes way more obsessive and neurotic and desperate to spend time with the person that he loves. He starts thinking about them. He starts dreaming about them. I've been feminine for most of my life, so I'll tell you how this feels, bro.
12:45 If you dream and think about a girl all of the time, then all that it means is that you want to reproduce with her. That's it, literally. It's very simple.
[video] 12:53 You go to sleep thinking about the girl that you're in love with. You might think, well, yeah, of course you do. Like, that's normal, isn't it? If you were more masculine, you go to sleep thinking about work. You go to sleep, literally, like, I spend the last, like, 20 minutes. And I'm not trying to boast that I'm, oh, I'm more masculine than you. That means I'm better than you or anything. It's just, like, if you wanted to become more masculine, well, this is how. If you don't want to become more masculine and you're fine how you are, then okay, fine, sweet. You don't need to watch this video. But this is how I spend the last, like, half an hour of my night. I don't spend it thinking about the girl or anything. I spend it literally planning the work I'm gonna do tomorrow. So masculine energy is literally just all about work, mission, goals.
13:22 And if that seems- There's also a very important point to make here. I don't know him. I don't know his channel. Maybe he has a lot of children, but anybody who is in a relationship for more than a month and doesn't have a child with a girl, is an absolute loser, then he's not masculine whatsoever. Because the number one achievement you can have with a girl is to have children with her. It sounds like he's been through a few relationships and if he didn't get any children out of them, then he completely failed at the core of the relationships anyway. It was just all a failure. That is the definition of a loser.
[video] 13:57 Really sad to you right now if you're thinking like oh, that's so sad like that's so boring. It shows where you are No, you might be think. Okay. Well, it does show where I am. And yeah, so I'm not masculine I don't want to be masculine anyway, because that seems boring and you I think okay Well, yeah work is boring. Maybe that's just because your work is boring Maybe you just haven't found work that you really like find fulfilling yet There was one particular phrase like sentence that I read in a book which changed it all for me because I thought once I was like now But I don't want to be these guys who work all day. That seems boring. Why would I want to be masculine? Okay, it seems normal, but it's like I like thinking about the girl. I like cuddling I like spending time with girls There was one sentence in this book that said that if you were not a masculine man You will never experience having like a little bit of a fight or an argument with your girl and then dropping down passionately making love on the floor. I'll say this again. If you're not a masculine man, you will never have such sexual tension in your relationships that you'll get into like this kind of a heated arguments with your girl. You'll end up fighting.
14:36 He's again describing an abusive relationship. Wow, man.
[video] 14:40 I like how he puts this guy on steroids
15:04 Thinking that that's what a masculine man looks like purely from the appearance.
[video] 15:09 This means that you are on these extreme ends. Being depolarized means that you're closer to the middle. You're less masculine, she's less feminine. What does this sound like? A modern day relationship. Most guys are way less masculine, way more feminine than they should be. Most women are way less feminine than they should be. So most people are right here, like in the middle. Sometimes it's even like this. Honestly, like I've had a relationship like this before. But for most people, it's about here. This is called depolarization. And this is the state where the couple can be friends. Because they're so depolarized, the guy's not that masculine, the woman's not that feminine, and then they're like best friends. Because this is the friend zone. But not so much in like, you know, oh, he got friend zone, but this is literally like...
15:44 Girls and guys can never be friends. The main reason why it ever happens is when the girl is not into the guy. The guy pretty much always wants to be with the girl, except if she's incredibly ugly. Incredibly. But the girl can friendzone, so to speak, guys, and they will always run after her. That's it. It's just the attraction or the lack of.
[video] 16:04 Some people can say it's insecurity. I don't know what it is. For me, it was just this desire to think like, bro, like, I want to be like a fucking animal around her. When you go like this, it creates like this fucking primal urge where you can't help but like want to have sex with your girl every 10 minutes, every 20 minutes. When you go like this and you become more masculine, she becomes really feminine. It creates like this huge... huge, huge, constant sexual tension and this like burning passionate love for each other. Does that last sentence that I just said, does that define most couples these days? Most couples these days are so like mature in the sense of like, they're just like two man and woman, but they're just like friends and they're just like normal people next to each other. Most couples are buddies. And again, if that's someone's desire, okay, fine, fair enough.
16:46 That's naturally how it is. A man and a woman, of course, have to be friends. It's an absolutely failed relationship if you cannot be friends with your partner. Hey, this is such common sense. Why do I even have to say it out loud?
[video] 17:00 you build love and sexual desire in a relationship bro the only thing that you can do is just become way more masculine now we want and i hope our girl will be very feminine what i've actually realized you know when you look around things you almost never meet any actually feminine women these days but what i found is that when you are a very masculine man and you're also very like confident about yourself and you're successful and everything you have a certain kind of personality which is quite dominant the more masculine you are you start to push
17:24 He's incredibly obsessed with guys on steroids. That also says a lot about him, a lot of insecurities. Women to the feminine side.
[video] 17:31 So for example, I meet a woman, this has happened for like the last two years, where when there's a girl that I'm about to date, she's, you know, a bit more normal, depolarized, a bit more like masculine than, you know, she naturally would be because of like, you know, her sort of masculine friends and masculine mother or something. And yet when she's fallen in love with me, by just being in love with a masculine man, she starts to get pushed out, polarized to the feminine side. I'm sat here. I've literally been double working while recording videos and live streaming at the same time. For three hours, I've been working, focused on this. I've had literally like one small thought about my girl. Guess what the thought was? It was for me to turn to this laptop right now. You don't love her. Yeah. Which I'm live streaming. To look into the camera and say, baby, can you bring my charger? Why? Because she's in the other room thinking about me. If she's a feminine woman, she's thinking about you. That's why we need each other. That's why we're in love. That's why there's gonna be like this polarity with your sexual energy.
18:14 Okay, it's definitely very clear why his relationships always fail. He's incapable of loving anybody because he doesn't love himself.
[video] 18:21 So this is exactly what you do you want to build you want to maintain love and especially sexual desire become as masculine as you can become as Focused on this like mission on this like leadership this guidance that full guide to masculinity will be like a card and I'll have it on the Description and stuff you can go watch that and try and learn from that one day I'll give you a tip though. I really mess up with this become more masculine and masculinity is all about work and everything you'll be focused on the work in the project i've really messed up and i made a mistake here become more masculine focus on the work but also remember that your woman needs to be topped up with love and appreciation and focus very recently for the first time in my life i've been too focused on work to the detriment of like her feelings and so i've almost neglected her to an extent that like she felt sad about it and even though that's a bad thing and a mistake that i'm gonna overcome it's kind of a nice problem to have i'm so masculine and so focused on work that i've neglected her a little bit so i just need to like pull
18:59 You're an absolute slave who's incapable of feeling anything for anybody. Oh my god. Pull back a little bit. Why is that a nice mistake to have?
[video] 19:08 Well, think about the opposite side. Think about if you're so feminine, if you're not focused on work at all, that you're too needy and clingy on her. Which one is she going to be more attracted to? The guy who she's really hoping, like, oh, come on, can you not just spend a day with me? I really want to spend more time with you. Or the guy where she's thinking, like, oh, come on, can you not just go away? I really just want one day without you.
19:24 If she's attracted to a guy then she's gonna be so Appreciative if he's gonna be around a lot, of course, this is such common sense Where does he get these ideas? It's just that something went wrong in his relationships that made him think this way There's a lot of insecurities there
[video] 19:42 So it's an okay problem to have, but I definitely went too far. So as you go about this pursuit of being more masculine and being way more focused on work and just being more of like this dominant guy, which, you know, you've learned from all of my videos so far from self-improvement and your masculinity. Just remember that like she needs some direct time. So when you go and spend time with her, like we saw with Adonis and, you know, he's working on his business and everything. When you go and spend time with her, make sure it's like total quality time. After I record this video, I'm going to walk in there and start like playing around, like, you know, play fighting with her. And, you know, for the last like few hours, her sort of like love tank, like love, whatever, like a tank or battery or something has went down whilst I've been focusing on this. I'm going to go in there, start like pretending to like kick her or something. We'll start kissing and stuff. And I'll go back up again. Maintaining and growing her attraction and her sexual interest in you is literally all just about keeping that tank up. And it goes up from the kind of masculine attraction that she actually desires. Hope that helps you bro. Click and watch this video right now, do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it.
20:29 Oh my God. This was one of the funniest videos I've ever seen. To be this delusional about relationships? I didn't even know that there's guys like this out there and no girl is into this whatsoever. Just no girl on earth. Yes, as I said, there are girls nowadays, there's quite a lot of them who have bipolar borderline. and all of these issues, but even those are not into that. You're talking about completely abusing girls and neglecting them. Nobody wants that. He's still young and naive and has a lot to learn about women and the nature of relationships in general because what he described throughout the whole video was how a modern man lives his life, which naturally no human in general is attracted to, and a woman of course most definitely not. Human beings in general only care about nature deep down.
21:25 Yes, we get brainwashed to care about careers, money which doesn't exist and so on, but nobody actually deep down cares about it. No woman is actually looking for that. A woman is only looking for natural attributes. I guess you could call them. And the man, of course, also, when it comes to women. The main problem seems to be that he's too focused on the modern life and how to make it work, instead of focusing on nature, because we all know what the actual truth is and what everybody wants, but he just can't see through it for some reason. As it is with most people, unfortunately. Thanks for watching!