Guy Teaches Losers How to Deal With Their Life @Todd V Dating

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0:00 Hey guys, as requested, I'm going to review a video by Todd V. Dating, The Great Value Lie, What Women Really Want.

[video] 0:07 What I'm gonna tell you in this video is something you're not really supposed to hear, because a lot of things function... Wow, those eye bags, dark eye circles are really bad.

0:18 He looks really unhealthy.

[video] 0:19 ...a lot more smoothly if this information is not widely known. You've been lent.

0:25 I think that he overexposed the video on purpose so that you can't see them as well, but we can see them, man.

[video] 0:33 about value and specifically what women perceive as that. And the thing is, this lie is not new. It's all over social media and that's where it's being propagated now. But this is the same lie I was told growing up in the 1990s. And it's what made me want to pursue wealth and status and fame and these other things with an idea that they would help me get women. I believed that that was the only way. And you see it nowadays all over the place. It's all LMS, looks money status, looks money status.

1:00 It's not the only way. It's actually impossible to get a woman with money or status. Literally impossible. Literally, there's no way. Not even one woman on earth.

[video] 1:09 Well, I want to talk to you about what are looks, money, and status, how they fit into this equation, how game fits into this equation. I want to piece it all together so you'll have a true, robust understanding. But understand this. Thank you. While game is absolutely truth and it absolutely works, it is, to a certain extent, a subversive truth. Things work more smoothly for a lot of people if you are pursuing a nicer car, a better job if you're following the rules that the quote-unquote socially high dissatisfied person is the only one allowed to talk to certain girls. All of those things do help a lot of people live their lives more smoothly, but they're just fundamentally not true. So without further ado, this video is The Truth.

1:46 Wow.

[video] 1:49 So let's start off with the idea I see in my comments all the time, this idea of what is attractive women. They say it's all LMS, looks, money, status. Here's the first lie. Looks, money, status is not one thing. It's three different things. It's possible to have one or the other of these without all three. You can have looks with no money and no status. If you are an attractive, aspiring male model that's never been booked on anything and is unemployed, you have looks, you have no money, no status. If you work in front of a computer all day and...

2:20 In the society, if you have the looks, usually it is going to lead to Marian status. Yes, he's right that if you just started, you wouldn't have it. That's why I always say technically you could be homeless and Whitman would still be running after you if you had the looks. But if you have the looks, then you will be elevated in society anyway, as in your status.

[video] 2:41 Because of that, you've let your diet go and you're overweight and you're badly dressed. You may have a lot of money from whatever you did in front of that computer. Nobody knows about it. You don't look good. You have money.

2:50 Money is completely irrelevant. It doesn't even exist. It's literally just what slaves care about. Look at most of the billionaires out there. Incredibly ugly. They knew that genetically they failed at life. They're just failures. So they had to try to compensate in some way, which is impossible, but that's what they believed. And when you look at their wives, they are just as ugly as them because it's impossible to get somebody attractive when you don't have the looks for it.

[video] 3:18 no looks and no status status will actually come back to because status is actually not a single thing status is actually an additive of a lot of different things a lot of different factors it's not one discrete thing and that's actually one of the biggest points this video is what is status so we'll get there but the point is you can have looks with no status and no money you can have money with no looks and no status they are not the same thing so we're going to break them down individually

3:43 Yeah, and you can also have status with no looks and money.

[video] 3:45 So let's first talk about looks. Do looks matter when it comes to attractiveness with women? Yes, they do. Obviously, they do. And they matter actually more now than they probably did 10 years ago because online dating is...

3:57 They always matter just as much because it's human nature. A woman only falls in love with your face The chemicals that are produced in the body biologically are produced because she looks at your face. When a woman says, I love you or I have developed feelings for you, it's literally because of your face. So it always mattered and it's the only thing that matters if you want a woman to love you.

[video] 4:22 the much more prevalent form of dating. But a lot of guys are wrong about how much they matter and in what way they matter. Here's what looks will do. Looks will give you a brief moment of attention.

4:34 They'll give you a match on... No, they will give you the only true feeling that you possibly can get from a woman. If you want a woman to be obsessed with you and do everything for you, then you will only get it with looks. It's the only way. There's nothing else that you can do about it.

[video] 4:51 That's an absolute lie. You can text pretty much anything you want as long as you have the looks for it.

4:56 Women will still go after you. You can be unattractive in other ways. Everybody who is good-looking is automatically confident, charismatic, and all of that stuff.

5:21 Everything that a woman says she wants in a man's character, really she just means she wants the looks, but even women nowadays don't realize what they're saying.

[video] 5:31 So it is nice to have appearance in your favor because it will bind that window. But here's the other thing about appearance, because it's mostly about attention, it's not just about sex appeal, okay? If you are well-dressed and seem stylish and successful, that will get you attention just as much as a chiseled jawline will. Because again, it's just about the girl seeing you in that first 20 seconds and thinking, is this the type of person that I'm willing?

5:54 The only thing that a girl thinks, if she thinks about the type, are the genes and the reproduction. Even if they don't realize it, it doesn't matter. It's naturally programmed into women. There's just a huge difference. Really, it's not even comparable. A chiseled jaw is what's gonna make a woman fall in love with you and want to stay with you for life. She will want to have your babies. Some suit that you wear or the way you dress or take care of yourself? Totally irrelevant!

[video] 6:22 To top, is this the type of person I'm willing to engage some mental energy on to see if I want to get to know them better? And there's various different methods or various different factors that can give you a yes on that. So a chiseled jawline or a six-pack is one of those. Being well dressed is another. Seeming to have your shit together.

6:41 Okay, everybody who's watching this video knows that you're coping because you're below average looking. And I wish that you would put the brightness, the overexposure lower, because I'm sure that you will look way worse.

[video] 6:56 There in general is another. And actually it all does come together. Cause if you seem physically attractive, but you're dressed like a bum.

7:03 What is also with his jaw, man? He looks like a chipmunk.

[video] 7:07 You may still get overlooked. Again, am I saying looks don't matter?

7:11 It looks like he had some failed implants or something.

[video] 7:13 No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying you should work on your looks. I'm not saying that. If you watch any of my videos, I say dress well, get in the gym because that 20...

7:21 Dress well, get in the gym. That's what he teaches. I don't know who this guy is. I don't know this channel. Somebody simply recommended this video to me to review. The only thing that you will get out of a gym is a shorter lifespan, quite literally. And if you will dress well, then you will spend the money on the clothes instead of getting plastic surgery, for example, which this guy could use.

[video] 7:40 seconds of attention or that match online is worth a lot. It is worth a lot, but it's not the whole deal. And if you don't follow it up with the right stuff, it will become meaningless very quickly. And I've seen this with students as well. I have many students on my programs that... How can you have students?

7:58 Like what can you teach anybody how to go to the gym and wrestle? Yeah. Typical blue pill garbage.

[video] 8:04 or better looking than me but then the girls all seem to like me more, right? Looks help, they're not the whole deal and look...

8:13 Okay, man, do I have to be the one who tells it to him? No girl is ever going to be into you, no girl is ever going to love you in your whole life, it's just not possible.

[video] 8:23 ...only get you past step one, you still have to have step two, three, four, five, six in order to get actual success. And I'm sure I'll get plenty of comments from the internet about this one, but I do get students on my program who are unattractive and get results all the time. It can be done if you get your style right and get your game right. Believe it, don't believe it, that's up to you.

8:43 What does he mean by results? That's what I'm curious about. But it's a fact.

[video] 8:47 So let's talk about money and here's what I'm very familiar with because I get tons of students coming on my programs who have money and are having trouble with girls. In fact, that's a huge demographic of what I get on a bootcamp.

8:58 Money doesn't exist. Why would a human being, in this case a woman, be naturally attracted to something that doesn't even exist? I mean, there's so many videos out there of guys who try to flash money or show how much money they have in a bank account and the women literally just don't care. They just don't care. Women care about how attractive you are. They care about reproduction.

[video] 9:23 Program. Here's the thing about money. Does money help you with women? Yes.

9:28 No, in no way at all.

[video] 9:29 but not until they already like you. If you lead with money, it's incredibly lame. Imagine if you were to walk up to a girl and be like, hi, what's up? My name's Todd, and by the way, I'm rich. Loser, right? Immediately, you're self-qualifying. You're trying too hard. You come off very, very lame. You cannot lead with money. The girl finds out you have it by accident. It can be attractive quality. And if after the girl already likes you and is already sexually attracted to you, she finds out that you also are financially stable or even rich, that's going to make it easier to have a relationship with her. It does help.

9:59 It's not gonna change the relationship. If there is attraction, then she's gonna stay with you no matter what. If there isn't attraction, then she's possibly gonna use you for a while.

[video] 10:09 On the back end, for sure. But upfront, it's very, very hard to lead with and I see so many guys go wrong by trying to lead with it and actually come off as lame and unattractive rather than attractive at all. Couple other things about money. Number one, a lot of guys have it. If you look around a high-end nightclub and look at all the bottle service tables, there are plenty of guys with money, flashing money, spending money. Most of them still go home alone. That's number one. Number two, money and resources are far less relevant than they used to be. Because for a lot of human history, we're at a subsistence level, and it was actually starve or not. Now, even a very average salaried man has plenty of resources to take care of a woman and take care of a family. And on top of that, women make a lot more money themselves than they ever did before. So while money and resources still do matter somewhat and they're still nice to have, everybody, or basically everybody nowadays, is at a level that they're living like kings compared to our evolutionary past. That said, almost everybody has enough money to be attractive to a woman nowadays. Now you might ask me, what about all these guys with Lamborghinis and girls that are certainly attracted to them and certainly into them? Because yeah, girls do go for hot cars. Girls do notice the hot cars, right?

11:08 Yeah, they notice them because they see a guy that they can use. It's not as if they are attracted to him He uses the word attraction. It cannot be attraction. A human being can only be attracted to something natural It's impossible to be attracted to something unnatural. It literally doesn't work How can you be attracted to a car, right?

[video] 11:27 Here's the thing about that. If you use your money to buy essentially a status symbol, right? Like a flashy car or something like that. Well, what you're essentially doing is you're turning your money into a form of appearance, right? And so the girl is responding to you, the guy with the Lambo, very similar to how she responds to the guy with the six pack. And we're right back to looks. So it's going to get her attention and it's going to buy you a little bit of time.

11:52 Women are not attracted to lamb balls or abs. Yes, of course you should not have a super huge stomach, which I think he does actually. It looks like he has high body fat, but that would be at least something close to natural attraction. But a piece of man-made metal with wheels?

[video] 12:10 However, if you follow it up with being very lame, and again, it's step one. If you can't do steps two, three, four, five, and six in the courtship process, you could call it. If you can't do those things, you're going to fall flat on your face very, very quick. But it does get you attention. And if you do have enough... You're a loser.

12:26 You're a genetic failure. And that's why you have problems with women. How do you not understand it? How do these people actually pay this guy to learn something which they cannot learn? You cannot learn how to change your freaking face. Women are never going to love you.

[video] 12:42 Money. It may even be a smart thing to do to get that initial burst of attention because now you're being treated the way an attractive guy would. But again, it's not the whole puzzle. It's just the start. So let's hypothetically say you had both looks and money. This is so wrong. Everything about it is so wrong. You might get a lot of attention and no dates, or you might get a lot of dates where you end up walking home alone at the end of the night. But you're going to, again, have trouble actually getting to the finish line, whether that is sex or relationship or whatever it is you're looking for. Okay, so so far we've said looks by itself isn't enough. It matters, it helps, but it's by itself not enough.

13:22 How are looks not enough in any way at all? Just give some kind of reasoning.

[video] 13:26 Money is by itself not enough. It helps, but it's not enough. What about status? Is status by itself enough? Probably yes. Status is pretty huge. And what it really is, is the relative standing between two people. Relative standing between two people. It literally is, in a direct comparison, who's better. One of the most important status metrics is actually an attraction trigger we talk about game all the time, and that is social proof. Popularity. Having people like you. Influence.

13:57 Pretty much only good-looking people are popular, but go on with your nonsense.

[video] 14:02 Right? That is a huge metric on which your status is being determined. And actually, that's something that we work on directly in-game, and a whole lot of game is designed around that. Right? So, do girls react to a man appearing more popular? Yes, they absolutely do. Okay, so now that...

14:21 Yeah, because of looks. Ugly people are not popular.

[video] 14:23 And here's the funny thing about if you have looks or money or whatever other things may be pieces of status. Your status in the girl's eyes is only what she can see. Here's what I mean. If you are wealthy, but you're dressed in shitty clothes and she has no way of knowing you're wealthy, you're gaining no value from that. If you are good looking, but you're wearing baggy clothes that don't show off your good physique, you're gaining no value from that.

14:45 If you're good-looking, but you're wearing baggy clothes and you can't show off your physique, how is that good-looking? What is this? Oh my god. I've never seen such a cope video. He's literally just coping. I've said in a lot of videos that You can't get a woman, and I guess we mean two different things by getting a woman, with money or status. It's completely irrelevant to them. And why is this? That's because naturally you can't get something natural out of something unnatural. You can apply this example to whatever you want in life, but in this case it is absolutely impossible for a woman to develop feelings for you or love you in any way at all. If you present to her something unnatural, and in the case of money something that doesn't exist, it's an absolute joke to them. They don't even sense it. Naturally, they're programmed to completely ignore it. What they do care about incredibly much and what they fall in love with, as I said, are your looks and that's your face. It's not your body. It's nothing below the neck.

15:45 He doesn't know that because a woman has never been in love with him. They don't look at those degenerated ugly eyes and say, I love you so much and have these shiny eyes. I know how that feels like. But because he has never experienced it, he believes that it's your status, it's you going to the gym and all of this absolute coping and compensating. So pathetic.

[video] 16:09 From that... The girl can only respond to what she sees and what is game? Game is conveying the elements of status in an efficient way, right?

16:18 So whatever elements of status... I can't... I just can't... I just can't stop smiling because it's just... it's just so wrong.

[video] 16:25 Whatever good resume items you have are only as good in the girl's eyes as she can see. I can't listen to you, man. You're just such a joke. That's what game is. Game is making status tangible to the girl and possibly generating status uniquely in the interaction. Here's what I mean by generating status uniquely in the interaction. There are basically two forms of value I talk about in game. One is absolute value. The other is relative value. Absolute value is a lot of the value that you think of as resume or looks money status type of stuff. It's how much money do you make? How cool is your job? How nice are the...

16:59 Yeah, with these things you could get a one-night stand, you could maybe have a relationship for a few weeks, a few months. You can get women to marry you, to use you for money and then eventually they will divorce you after a year or two and try to get as much of your property, money, whatever. And maybe they will even have a child with you not because they are attracted to you or love you or have any feelings for you whatsoever But because it will be better for the divorce to get the property That's it. That's all that you can get out of it That's what this guy is teaching you The main problem with this community of losers is that they don't realize that human beings, men and women, only respond to what is natural We just cannot care about what is unnatural. A woman cannot possibly care about your status or money. It's just not possible. I don't know how else to make you understand this.

[video] 17:55 There are other elements which are relative value. And that is what exists in the direct interaction of you and the girl. So let's take this for example. Let's say there's a celebrity and a girl is attracted to him because he's a celebrity. But then as...

18:13 There's no such thing. Would you be attracted to Woody Harrelson? Because he's a celebrity. Super high status. How higher can you get? Hollywood actor. Mega high status. What woman on earth would want to be together with him? Nobody, because status is irrelevant. It doesn't even exist. It's in your head because you're mentally ill. He's a millionaire. Would a woman care? Would a woman want to have a child with him? No, because he's ugly. Why does his wife look as ugly as him? Oh, because You can only attract people who are as attractive as you. Oh, really? So wait, money and status cannot actually get you more beautiful women than you are yourself. How come? That's so strange.

[video] 19:00 Soon as the girl starts interacting with him, he starts acting, putting her on a pedestal, supplicating to her, acting lame. So now in an absolute value term, he has higher absolute value than her. But in their interaction, he's conveying a lower relative value. She will start to disdain him. She'll start to think of him as lower value. She'll start to become unattractive to him.

19:20 On the other hand... People are attracted to celebrities because most of them are good-looking. That's the only reason. This is so simple. How can you not understand this?

[video] 19:32 Imagine a situation where maybe a girl has a lot of resume items, but she's around some guy who maybe doesn't have the social status, but he's kind of maybe an irreverent guy, kind of doesn't take shit from people. And in their interaction, he's giving her shit. He doesn't seem to care much about her. And she starts reacting more to him. And all of a sudden, she starts getting attracted to him. And this is why a lot of times girls go for the bad boy that doesn't necessarily have the resume or the guy that their parents...

19:54 This is so incredibly wrong. Oh my god. This is one of the worst videos I've ever seen, especially when it comes to relationships. This is the worst. Yeah, definitely. Women go for bad boys, bad guys or guys who treat them in any way bad simply because they are good-looking. Usually those guys are very confident. They will use women who are average-looking and they will just run after them all of the time. And then they will say, why am I into these bad boys? They will say this to their girlfriends. They don't even realize it sometimes themselves. As I said, women are also oblivious when it comes to what they are attracted to because the mainstream always tells them that they shouldn't go for looks and that character matters and so on. And they really want to believe it themselves. They just get to this point of brainwash. But... If they would really have to look deep down into themselves or whatever, they would of course have to admit that they are into these bad boys only because of their looks.

20:50 Nobody wants to be together with an ugly guy who is a bad boy or is in any way abusive, neglects them and so on. It's just, all of this is so simple.

[video] 21:00 ...disapprove of that sort of thing. So the guy may not have an advantage in terms of absolute value, but he has a huge advantage in terms of relative value within their interaction.

21:09 Alright, the video goes on for six more minutes or something. I can't listen to this guy anymore. It's unbearable. It's pathetic. You're an absolute loser. Really, even making this video was giving you too much attention, which you shouldn't be getting. How the hell does he have students? What can he teach to anybody about relationships, man? Sure, you can use status, money and game to get one-night stands from women who have absolutely no self-worth and will sleep with just about anybody. And yeah, like I said, you could even get some to marry you for the money and to use you and so on. Yeah, you can get all of that. I've never denied that in my videos. What you can't get with that is for a woman to love you. And that's all that they want, you see? They want women to have feelings for them. They know that they can't get them naturally, which is only with their looks, which is why they try to compensate. But you can't.

22:08 You simply can't. Thanks for watching.