Lisa Glamour: Your Looks Define Your Value @Lisa Glamour

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0:00 Hey guys, I'm going to be reviewing a video called how to stay high value when a man pulls away or becomes distant by Lisa Glamour.

[video] 0:09 Hello my beautiful darlings, welcome back to my channel. I hope you're having an amazing day today and today I'm going to really help you because I'm going to give you the secret on how to stay high value when a man pulls away or when a man becomes distant with you.

0:20 What's secret? If a man pulls away, then he's not attracted to you anymore. The same way, if a girl distances herself from a guy, then she's not attracted to you. Where is the mystery?

[video] 0:36 I see that with a lot of my clients, they tell me, what do I do? What do I do if he becomes distant, if he pulls away and he comes back, if he ghosts me and he comes back?

0:46 There's pretty much nothing that you can do if he ghosts you, because then he's really not attracted to you whatsoever.

0:57 Except if you're completely nuts, I'm talking about actually mental. But that's not gonna be the case for almost anybody out there. You would have to be absolutely insane for a man to pull away from you, even though he's still attracted to you. Even if you're just slightly mental, he's still gonna stick around if you're attractive. This is all about attraction.

[video] 1:23 So I wanted to do a clear video on how to manage this situation, but as a high-value woman, to keep your dignity, to keep your self-worth.

1:31 Let's first define... Yeah, is she gonna define it now? Because that's what I'm wondering about. What is a high-value woman to her? Marilyn Monroe was a so-called high-value woman because of how attractive she was.

[video] 1:48 What it means when a man pulls away. Imagine you've been seeing someone for a couple of weeks or a couple of months and you've been investing time and emotions and effort and he was really courting you nicely, being a gentleman, doing everything right and suddenly he pulls away.

2:02 She doesn't define it, that's a problem for the whole video. Maybe she will afterwards. And she's also talking about it as if it's some kind of mystery. You can right away tell as a woman and as a guy if somebody's into you, just the way they look at you. You know it. Either you know it, Or you go into denial and want to believe that there's still a chance that he will be into you. You want to really repress the actual true emotions that he's showing you, and it's for sure not him being attracted to you. That's not what his body language, especially his eyes, are telling.

2:48 It's probably because you're very attracted to him and you really want him to be attracted to you, but it's just not gonna happen if it didn't happen already. It's either love on first sight, make babies, or it's not happening. Everything beyond that is just a delusion, you're just in denial.

[video] 3:09 But if you're not attractive already, how are you gonna stay high value exactly? A high value man is a tall and handsome man.

3:37 That's the highest value that you can have as a man. You don't need anything else. You can be homeless, have no job, no house, cars, whatever. Completely irrelevant. You're still the highest value man on earth if you're the tallest and most attractive guy. And by tallest I mean, of course, within a range. The so-called perfect height, which is hard to define, but most women will say...

4:07 One meter ninety, which would be six feet two, whatever, three, four, whatever. For sure over six feet anyway. And a high value woman is an attractive woman, a beautiful face and some other stuff, which I'm not even gonna say on YouTube.

[video] 4:27 Your reaction, your reaction could actually reunite his interest in you if you maintain your high value while he's distant. And of course, the fundamental, because staying high value in this kind of situation protects your self-worth and your self-esteem, which is crucial to have to navigating the dating world. So if you want to know how to navigate that tricky situation like a true high value woman, keep on watching. But first, I just wanted to let you know that if you want to see more of my content, I talk about fashion, femininity, old Hollywood glamour, seduction, dating, and anything to make you become a highly feminine lady.

4:55 Yeah, that's what I thought. For her, a high-value woman is somebody who puts on a fancy dress, has a lot of money, I assume. That's what it looks like. It's nothing. It's irrelevant. Do you think that a guy cares? A guy would always choose a homeless girl who's prettier than you. You, the girl who's... in her villa with a fancy car, her dress, whatever. If he sees a prettier girl sitting on the street corner, he's gonna choose her. The same way a girl's gonna choose the homeless guy over this shorter, not as handsome guy who steps out of a Ferrari next to his villa. Completely irrelevant. Your value is only defined by how biologically valuable you are for reproduction. That's it.

5:53 You're delusional if you see it any other way.

[video] 5:57 All of these fake high-value women should stop dying their hair, putting on a kilogram of makeup, all of these clothes, and simply go with what they have.

6:15 which is their beauty, and if they don't have it, they are just deluding themselves, thinking that they can have more value than they naturally have.

[video] 6:25 Instagram and on TikTok. And also, if you truly want to upgrade yourself from head to toe, energy will change completely and you will never have to ask those kinds of questions of what do I do people's way? Because you will be embraced in your power, in your divine feminine. You will never feel like, oh, I need to prove my value to this man. I need his attention. I need this. No, you will understand your value as a woman. You will understand that you are the prize. Yes, but again, this comes naturally.

6:55 If a guy is very attracted to you, then that's how he will treat you. There's nothing else that you can do about it. There's nothing that you can change about Especially anything that's external from you that will actually make him attracted to you. But it seems like this is what this channel is about. It's the first video I've ever seen. Maybe I'm wrong. Technically, you could also change yourself with surgeries. Of course, you don't change yourself genetically and if it's something such as changing your nose, then later you have a child, the child has a strange nose, you should at least let the guy know that you had the surgery for your nose. Technically that way you would be able to attract more guys, but it doesn't change your genes.

[video] 7:49 Oh, interesting. It's kind of like the red pill for women. Join this course and then you will learn how to become a high-value woman instead of telling the women that

8:18 Your value is based on how pretty you are, essentially. That's the number one way to define it. Hmm, very interesting. Like an Andrew Tate for women, sort of.

[video] 8:31 Yes, because that's exactly what guys look at. The woman's body language, how she walks.

8:42 Is she walking glamorous enough like Lisa Glamour? That's probably what she teaches. No, he literally just looks at how pretty you are and how attractive your overall body is and if he wants to reproduce with you. Same with the way women look at guys. It's slightly different as to what you look at. As I said, a guy has to be tall. Guys don't really look at a woman's height. Of course, if she's super short, yeah, but it's not that important.

[video] 9:17 the way you talk, and you can communicate how high value you are with just your body language. Sometimes you don't even need to say anything.

9:25 Right, yeah, exactly. If a woman is unattractive, but she signals with her body language that she's a high-value woman, then she will for sure have success. And then you go for a walk one day, and he's just staring at his... girl non-stop who works as a cashier because she's prettier because that's all that matters yeah great and this is horrible men will sense your high value aura and the fact that you yeah exactly because those guys in the movie looked at them because of the way they walked and their dress not literally at their face and some other parts of the body

[video] 10:14 You really carry yourself with grace and elegance that you really love yourself just with your body language.

10:20 So if you want to join... Yeah, but same as for guys, she's basically talking about being confident. If you're not attractive, how is that gonna work? It can't. It's just like a red pill, blue pill video for women.

[video] 10:38 All of the courses, the links are down below.

10:40 Again, really it's just a scam. You can call it that because except if she teaches women how to be more attractive, which is hardly even possible anyway, you can slightly become more attractive, but not by much, then it's a pointless course.

[video] 11:00 most women react when a man pulls away is that they start panicking they start overthinking so instead of staying in their feminine energy being the black cat being the prize waiting being the observer like i always say the feminine energy when you're in your feminine you are the price and you observe his behavior. You observe what he does and you react accordingly. Instead of that, you start being in your masculine energy, trying to control the situation, trying to control him. You end up reaching out excessively, having the need to- This is also all stupid.

11:32 This is exactly what they teach the guys. Don't call her play games, right? Because this is all about playing games and hurting each other. Instead of right away knowing, which you know anyway, if you're attracted to him or her or not. If he doesn't call you and he ghosts you, he's not attracted to you. If she does the same to you, then she's also not attracted. Hopefully it goes both ways and then you just split up. If it's one way, it can be painful for one of you, of course. And then you will think, how do I hurt him? How do I play games with him now? Because I want him back, but I don't want him to know that I want him back. Now I will try to ghost him, maybe he will have some interest again." No, of course not. It's nonsense. Because interest comes from attraction. That's what it's all about. Why would somebody pull away? Because he's not attracted to you. When somebody is attracted to you, they just come to you.

12:30 You walk down the street, they look at you, they ask for your number, they just want to be with you, which means that they want to reproduce with you. That's not what people say out loud today, and many are not even conscious of that. Actually, most people aren't, from what it seems like, but that's literally what it naturally means. You as an animal, are attractive enough for me, I want to reproduce with you. That's all that, can I have your number means. And just because they are brainwashed to use protection and so on, doesn't matter. You're literally just trying to reproduce when you're intimate with somebody. And if he pulls away, then he is not attracted, because he's pulling away. Same with a girl. If she's pulling away, she doesn't want any contact anymore, she's just not attracted to you. She doesn't see you as a mate. Maybe she never did, maybe now not, after all, but... It's just over, pretty much. Find somebody else.

13:30 She already found somebody else. Even if she literally didn't find somebody else already, it's in her head. She doesn't want you. She wants somebody else. Same in this case. He wants somebody else. That's why he's pulling away. And that's all that it means. It's already over.

[video] 13:47 what is wrong and what happened and what you did wrong.

13:50 But here's the truth ladies, part of being high... You don't do anything wrong, as I said, except if you're absolutely mental nuts insane, that could really push somebody away, because nobody wants to get hurt. Because you would see it as dangerous to be around you, but other than that, nothing that you ever do is ever gonna push him or her away. Because

14:16 There's just almost nothing that you would be able to actually do to do that if somebody is attracted to you.

[video] 14:20 value is understanding that you need to be comfortable with the unknown and not needing to control the situation. You can only be certain about yourself, you can only control yourself and not anybody else, okay? If you see any high value woman, how she holds herself and others to a certain standard is that she will not degrade herself and lose her dignity and lose her self-image to chase after a man that is literally showcasing that he's not really that interested in her, okay? When he's showcasing that he is low effort like that, like just be this...

14:49 It's not about being low effort. As I said, he's not into you and then yeah, just drop it. As I said, it's over, it's done. Yeah, it may be painful, but it's better for you to realize it. It's much worse to think that it was because of something else, instead of you being unattractive, and then try to change something about yourself, try to call him, leave messages, I'm gonna change, I'm gonna walk differently, I'm gonna get a different dress. It cannot fix anything.

[video] 15:22 disgusted by his behavior in that case. You need to be like, okay, that's who he is.

15:28 Yeah, be disgusted or whatever you want. Just realize that it's over. He is.

[video] 15:33 Wow. Okay. I mean, I'm amazing. He doesn't see my value. That's too bad for him. That's always what you need.

15:41 It's possible that somebody is not necessarily amazing, but pretty attractive, but he's just not into you. Maybe he just doesn't see what other men see. A lot of times it's just gonna depend on where you're from. A guy may look at a girl and not see the same as another guy because he sees something, especially genetically, which is just attractive to him and that's it. And that's just always how it's gonna be for men and women.

[video] 16:12 to say think in your head that's too bad for him that's just same with friends same with family same with any type of people that do not see your value you do not go and chase and showcase how amazing you are and convince them to love you back and to be in your presence to be with you if they don't want to be with you that's too bad for them okay you don't get my precious femininity Yeah, because that's what a man is looking for.

16:39 Your aura. That's what he's gonna miss. He's always gonna think about her aura. Oh, her aura was so nice. It felt so good. How I miss it. Maybe I should call her. Maybe she will even let me talk to her aura. Because that's all that I want to feel again.

[video] 17:00 The key is to not freak out. Don't flood him with calls or messages. Even if he actually liked you in the beginning and even if there's a good reason for him to pull away, this type of behavior of calling him excessively and messaging him...

17:11 It's possible that somebody somewhat likes you. They're not really sure and sometimes people are just desperate in the moment. You shouldn't misunderstand this and think that he's actually into you. Don't confuse the two. But then maybe you had a lot of makeup on and fake eyelashes and whatever, which shows that you're healthier than you actually are. And then he wakes up next to you, you don't have the makeup on or some of it is gone.

17:41 Some of the eyelashes fell off and then he sees you for who you are. A lot of times also just looking unhealthy can be very off-putting. That's why it's better to just not use makeup or anything like that. Just show yourself as you are.

[video] 17:58 excessively and sending paragraphs like this explaining why you're hurt and all of this is going to push him away even further. Like, do not do that, ladies. That behavior is seen as crazy.

18:08 It doesn't really matter. Yeah, he's not into you anymore anyway. If she calls you all the time, it's not gonna make a difference because he's not into you. What does it matter if he sees you as crazy at that point anyway? It's just irrelevant because he doesn't even care about you.

[video] 18:25 In the whole history of humanity, have you ever seen a love story start with a woman chasing a man and then it end up being disputed?

18:33 But all of these love stories are exactly the problem. The romance novels, the movies that people watch today, especially girls, they have a wrong fantasy in their head of what romance is about. Romance is about somebody seeing you, and if they find you attractive on first sight, then they fall in love with you, which is them being attracted to you and wanting to reproduce with you. And then they will do that if they are really into you. These romance movies teach us that women should talk to men in a specific way, wear these specific clothes, and act a certain way. It all doesn't matter, but it's just the brainwashing from Hollywood movies.

[video] 19:21 Amazing love story. Have you ever seen in the books that you're reading?

19:25 No, of course you won't have a beautiful love story when a woman chases a man because... If one side is chasing the other, it doesn't matter which one it is, then one side is not into the other side. Because if both sides are into each other, then there's no chasing. Then there's only reproduction.

[video] 19:47 in the movies that you're seeing, in any type of story, in any type of love story, have you ever seen a woman chasing a man and having to convince him to be with her?

19:57 No, of course not, because you don't need to convince anybody to be with you if the other side is attracted to you. Again, it doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl, it's just human nature. It has nothing to do with genders, because both sides are the same, even though they try to tell you nowadays that we are so different. We are the same in almost every way. And when it comes to attraction and relationships, we're totally the same. It's just two human beings who find each other attractive or not.

[video] 20:29 Of course he would, it's just that she wouldn't even need to do that if he would be attracted to you. If a pretty girl is chasing after a guy, that's his dream, but she wouldn't have to chase because let's say that

20:58 She was standing there, you walk past, she didn't get to say hi fast enough, then you hear somebody running, he turns around, and he sees this pretty girl chasing after him. I know that that's not what she means, but still, it's by definition chasing. What would he do? He would be super glad that this pretty girl is chasing after him technically, but the chasing would stop right there, because he would be attracted to her, because she's pretty, and then they would be together and reproduce shortly after. And that's just what I'm saying, it's just all nonsense. If you're chasing him, he's just not into you.

[video] 21:43 ...or that is desperate like this. They can smell desperation from a mile away, ladies. So you need to stop believing that men and...

21:50 It doesn't matter. If a pretty girl is desperate, why would you care? It just doesn't work. The same way a handsome tall guy cannot be desperate because the girl wants him. You're talking about people that others are not attracted to and then you say that they are desperate. Of course, because they have this desperation. They are attracted to the other side and the other side is not interested, so they chase them. They are desperate.

[video] 22:23 Women are the same. First of all, we're not the same, okay? We are the feminine, they are the masculine. They are the chasers, they are the hunters, we are the feminine.

22:32 Yes, we are hunters, the chasers. Ah, darling. This is not at all how it goes down in nature. Unfortunately, I'm not allowed to talk about it on YouTube, but come on. You think that guys chase girls in nature? That's funny. Funny and delusional.

[video] 22:53 He needs to be begging to be with you. Even in biology, human nature, human behavior, anthropology, even if you study...

23:01 In the case of Leonardo DiCaprio, it's the girls begging to be together with him. And even now at his age, but that's because he's very good looking,

[video] 23:12 it is the same behavior always the male chasing the females there's no question about that we need to talk about your behavior what you're going to do when you're in that situation to stay high value first of all don't try to figure out why he pulled away why he's pulling away your first instinct might be to analyze what happened actually the reasons of why he pulled away why he's distant doesn't matter all of that doesn't matter the fact

23:32 It does matter. If you would watch some Blackpill content, then you would realize that it's because you're not attractive enough. And overall, there's not much that you're going to be able to fix about it. That's it. It would be a lot better than to buy some course, spend a lot of money

23:55 wasting your life thinking that you need to fix especially some external stuff which has nothing to do with you all that you should fix if anything is you of course but as i said for the most part you can't it is that he pulled away and that your energy is better spent detaching yourself from that rather than figuring out why like when you're trying to figure out No, I don't agree. It would be better to realize why and then you would be more at peace.

[video] 24:28 Why? You put too much energy on him and you put too much energy on this situation. You're obsessing, you're overthinking. You are putting your precious time and energy into this man that honestly do not care about you. I promise you, ladies, when a man is truly in love with you... That's right.

24:43 Yeah, he doesn't care about you. And why doesn't somebody care about you? Because they are not attracted to you when it comes to relationships anyway. And you know that. You know it anyway, you just sometimes want to be in denial about it. But of course you know it.

[video] 25:01 Exactly, and pretty much no matter what you will do, it will be impossible that he will pull away from you if he's actually into you.

25:17 She kind of says it, but she just doesn't say why exactly. Maybe she even understands that who the hell knows. Maybe she just wants women to buy the course.

[video] 25:27 Confident, high value woman can feel a hint in her self-esteem when a man pulls away. But don't let this momentary dip turn into doubt. Remind yourself that you deserve someone who is fully invested. Shift your focus from who you want to be with to who you deserve to be with. Okay, ladies, like there's...

25:44 It's not a bad idea. Yes, biologically you should understand who you will be able to get.

[video] 25:51 So many women that are fixated on one man and it's like, I want this man.

25:56 Yeah, because he's tall and handsome.

[video] 26:00 This, like, why do you want him? Why do you want him?

26:03 Because you're attracted to him. No other reason.

[video] 26:06 If he doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated, if he doesn't...

26:10 It doesn't matter. Do you really care how a girl treats you if you're a guy? If you're super attracted to her? Again, if she's absolutely mental, yes. Maybe not at first, but eventually you're gonna care, but other than that... Do you really?

[video] 26:28 like a true queen, why do you imagine that he's amazing? He is not. He is not. If he doesn't treat you right, he is not for you and he is not your prince charming. He is not your soulmate. I promise you, love stories don't start with him being unsure and him pulling away.

26:43 Right, that's true, because he's not attracted to you. That's why he's unsure, he pulls away, he doesn't treat you right. Because if he's really attracted to you, He will treat you like a queen, basically, not exactly like that, but he will treat you good the same way a girl will treat you good if she's into you, of course.

[video] 27:03 And he's being like, I don't know, no. If it already starts like this, what is it going to be when you actually have... Yeah, he's going to break up with you eventually, of course. ...have hard times and children and like diseases and things that... No, you shouldn't have children then.

27:21 What's the point? It's not gonna work out anyway. Just a broken family, children without a father most likely.

[video] 27:29 ...are going on that are really hard in your life. How can you count on a man like this that is undecisive? That's not a masculine man, that's not a high value man. High value...

27:40 He has already decided he doesn't want to be with you. That's the whole point. The video goes on like that for 15 more minutes. Imagine this as a girl. You're very pretty. Everybody has always told you since you were a child that you're super pretty. And you develop into an attractive woman. Do you believe that guys will pull away from you, ghost you, that they will not care about you? Is this actually a possible reality? It's not, and you know that. And if you are very pretty, then you know that. And if you're not, you're maybe average, above average slightly, then you will for sure have success. But why would you then be surprised if somebody pulls away? It's just nonsense. You already know that this wouldn't happen if you were very attractive.

28:37 Why do you try to think of some other reason as to why he's not into you? There is no other reason and you know that.

28:49 As I said, either somebody is attracted to you and they will do anything to be with you, anything. They will not let go, except if you really tell them, no, look at me and look at yourself. Go and look in the mirror, get the fuck out, basically. Or they will pull away because they are not attracted to you and then they will not have any contact with you anymore. That's all that it's about. It's super simple biology. That's just animal nature. But this video was, as I said, just a red pill and rotate video for women. Buy this course, do this and that. Andrew Tate will say, buy this car, get this house, buy this suit or whatever clothes, sunglasses, then she will be into you.

29:43 Become a millionaire, have money which doesn't exist, which literally never attracted anybody in history, because it doesn't exist, how can it? And then the girls will say in this case, buy some dress, walk a certain way to show that you're confident basically, and put on some high heels, go to a hairdresser. And no, both sides are delusional, that's not what it's about. You can have absolutely messed up hair, wear absolute garbage clothes, dirty, you bought them for one dollar, it doesn't matter whatsoever. If you're attractive as a guy or a girl, he or she is gonna be into you. And it will always be like that, because it's nature. Thanks for watching.