Sleeping Around Ruins the Lives of Men & Women @JustPearlyThings

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0:00 Hey guys, as requested by a subscriber, I'm going to review a video by Just Burly Things. Modern women can't accept men don't like passed around women.

[video] 0:09 I somewhat agree. I personally... It's very debatable because sometimes women don't know what they want. And like you said, sometimes we think we know what they want by doing stuff like cooking and cleaning and spending more time with them. But it's like when the guy approaches them first, obviously...

0:30 Guys don't care about cooking because there is no cooking in nature. In nature humans only eat raw food so naturally we don't care about cooking whatsoever. And cleaning also because there is nothing to clean in nature. So these are all modern ideas that women have that no man actually naturally care about.

[video] 0:46 think that they can look in and like oh let me try to be fair like oh let me try this let me try that and it's like at the end we might not get what they want and then we'll obviously get angry because they are they approached us first and it's just like what did you well what did you want in the beginning yeah of course so it's just but like in this like especially like i'm 24 as well like i'm like if you like if you approach me and like you really want no like you should

1:13 I'm surprised. I really thought that she's around 40.

[video] 1:16 Guys, you should know what you want as well. Sex. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, like... And then when we don't want that, you look mad. Do they get mad or do they move on? No, some of them get mad. Fair enough. Yeah, both. Fair enough. So what I'd find, what I'd say is... Male and female relationships are transactional. Men want sex, women want relationships. Women control access to sex, men control access to relationships. That's true. It's a game that you're playing.

1:51 Sort of true nowadays, but in nature, no, not whatsoever. I would tell you how it goes down in nature, but that wouldn't be allowed on YouTube.

[video] 1:59 Playing with a guy. If you can withhold sex long enough for him to kind of get to the point where he feels like he needs to wife you,

[video] 2:09 then you're playing the game right. And also a lot of guys, if they know you've slept with guys before, like very quickly, and they want to date you, but you're making them wait, they're just thinking like, what am I doing here? You didn't make him wait. And so a lot of guys get frustrated and just leave because, you know, it's like you slept with three guys on the football team. So why on earth am I waiting for this? But then that just shows you wasn't serious in the first place. That just shows that he was just actually there for sex because Tom got it quicker than Harry. No, it shows, one, men value purity. So they don't want a girl that slept with a lot of guys. But it's fine for them to do... Yeah, because men and women are different. Like, it's easy for us. You can walk outside, I can walk outside.

2:50 From my experience, women don't like guys who have slept with a lot of girls also. We're all human.

[video] 2:55 What? No, I agree, we're all human. Like, it's not like girls don't want to have sex. But it's valuable to a guy to have a girl that hasn't had as many experiences because it lowers your value the more people you slept with. I find that ridiculous. Sadly, sadly. It's true, but it's just...

3:12 they seem very triggered right away. It's interesting how women nowadays just cannot accept it, even though in every Muslim country, for example, it's common sense and it always used to be common sense. Only in Europe, the United States and so on, women have a problem understanding this.

[video] 3:34 Biologically men and women are different so historically men had to ensure paternity So they had to make sure that the woman they were sleeping with like that She was passing on his genes and so we can't make our biological like need go away the same way We can't help that we like men taller than us because historically we had to find a guy to protect us It's just innate in them. They can't help it. It's like how how would you feel if you were dating a girl and you found out later, like, after you were together, that she slept with three of your boys? Oh, my God. But that's his boys, right? Okay, no, let's say three acquaintances. You don't know them well. That is, of course, a very natural reaction for a guy. But then again, in nature, that would never happen anyway. Only in these modern messed up times, that could even be a possibility.

[video] 4:33 would be fuming because I've invested all this time, effort, money to know that there's brothers in and around me looking at me going, yeah. Now it kind of makes you look. Now, what if you waited a month to bang her and you found out that all of them slept with her on the first date? Yeah, I'm fighting everyone. No.

[video] 4:54 because a guy wants you to like view him as the best that like you can do so if we're going around making one guy wait and giving it to another guy immediately like to the guy that's simply because if it would be like this the girl was more attracted to the other guys very simple it's like you don't like him you liked the other guys more and you're just settling for the other guy right would you man was that yeah

[video] 5:20 like to feel like they're being settled for at all, I think. I think men like feeling like a woman is there to settle for him. Men, like you said, does like to feel like he is the best that woman wants, I think. The thing is, I think, you know, whoever you get as a partner, they want to be treated like a 10 and you want to be treated like a 10. Whether you are objectively in terms of beauty standards or not isn't the point. The kind of relationship you have with your partner, you should be each other's 10.

5:53 That's exactly what I was talking about in the previous review. Women and men want to be seen as number one. They want to know that only you desire them and that's again just human nature.

[video] 6:04 get what I'm saying but is that is that possible if uh like a five is going for a ten I don't think so well that's yeah that's the problem is I don't think that can happen where everyone gets their first choice because especially nowadays you have 80% of women sleeping with 20% of guys so the five thinks she's an eight because she's sleeping with the eight nine or ten And so when she gets married, she's going to view her husband as less. That's another issue with sleeping with a lot of guys. Did you know if you sleep with more than five guys, your chance of a happy marriage after 10 years goes from 80% to 25%? Why? Why? Why? Because the more men you sleep with, you lose your ability to bond with each one. Okay.

6:52 That's exactly true and I've talked about this before already. And of course, again, it would never happen in nature. The likeliness of ever even being with two men in nature is almost impossible, basically. If you're naturally together with somebody, then you right away create a family. And there's basically no chance that you would ever break up. There's no such thing in nature. But nowadays that happens a lot, of course, because we do not really bind with each other. And the only way it could really happen is if the one you're together with would die for some reason. That's kind of what marriages are trying to imitate nowadays, until death do us part or whatever they say. But of course you cannot artificially force this.

[video] 7:36 Pair bonding. Yeah, it's pair bonding. So if you sleep with one guy, you're going to compare the next guy to him. If you sleep with 10 guys, you compare all 10. If you sleep with 20, you compare all 20. And guys hate being compared to other guys. Well, they hate being, but it makes you more divorced. You're not likely to be divorced, but you're more likely to leave if you did that because you're with your husband.

7:55 Exactly. The natural way it always has been is that a woman is with this one guy who is everything for her. And nowadays, if you sleep around, of course, that completely changes the mentality. Yeah, that's why women are broken. And it breaks men, too, indirectly. It can.

[video] 8:13 I've been thinking about the last, like, ten guys that maybe weren't as good as the one you married. Goddamn.

8:26 There's one important thing to mention here. In nature, everybody is more or less perfect. Not that there is really such a thing, but if you're naturally healthy, everybody is more or less good looking. Everybody has a good physique. Nobody is anxious or depressed or has any of these modern mental issues. Everybody gets along, which is why relationships are just much easier in nature anyway.

[video] 8:52 Are you okay? Yeah, that's just mad. I feel not smart because like... Made you think, innit? There's a guy, like, for me, and I didn't realize what I was doing, right? But if there's a guy that to me is like a nine, right? And he's talking to me, I'm like, why are you talking to me? Because I just immediately think that he wants, like, something. Because I'm like, you're a little out of my life. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's because, and I didn't realize that's an innate, like, response to not wanting to be alpha widowed. And alpha widow is basically when you sleep with a guy that's so high value, no one else can compare.

[video] 9:27 And so every guy, so your husband might pay for it because you're sleeping with your husband wishing it was the other guy. Oh, that's a good idea.

9:37 It's kind of interesting, but again, it goes back to what I was saying. In nature, there are... I hate that they rate people, but okay, for the sake of the video, let's just go with it. Of course, there are no lower ranked people in nature. There are no people who are deformed, who are ugly and so on. This is very important to understand because we just never had to deal with the issues that we have to deal with in modern dating or whatever you want to call the garbage.

[video] 10:06 I don't know about you, but I've found that there's always girls always have one ex that they like can't get over. That they can't, that it doesn't matter who they date.

10:15 It's usually the first guy. Usually.

[video] 10:17 After, they're always thinking about that last ex. And when I was in college, I remember just thinking, wow, this is so weird. Like everyone's got that one and that's everyone's alpha widow. Like, I'll give you a story. I tell this story all the time on my show. So, there was a girl I went to school with. She was, like, the girl next door you never would have known. She, um, she slept with a guy, or she was dating a guy for, like, a month freshman year, okay? And they broke up. She was kind of a player, like, he cheated on her, like, in, like, a month? Like, that's so silly. I know, I know. I'm like, you're gonna make it a month anyway. So, like, fast forward four years later. She's dating a new guy. This man treats her like a queen, okay? He bought her a house. Oh. He bought her, yeah, she bought her a house, moved her into the house. They're still together. No, they're still together to this day. I would say he probably wasn't as, like, good-looking as the guy from freshman year or had, like, as much of a smooth talker, but, like, good, reliable, responsible guy, bought her a house, moved her in, all this stuff. We're at a party, okay? Yeah, I'm at a party, and she's there, and the guy that bought her the house isn't coming, but he's going to get there in, like, an hour, okay? And I see her.

[video] 11:16 She goes into the bathroom, and I'm like, why is that? Like, we're not... Where'd she go?

[video] 11:24 And she comes, I see her come out of the bathroom with the guy from freshman year. She was sleeping with him in the bathroom. I don't know how long or what happened. I just was like, and you never would have known because she was like the girl next door. And yeah, she's like still with that other guy today. And so when I think of Alpha Widow, that's what I think of. Was she drunk? I don't know, probably. Yeah.

11:45 It sounds like that was her first guy, though, which confirms what I was saying.

[video] 11:49 No. No. I don't, like, I wasn't super close with her like that. We were just on the same, like, we just, like, we're the same friends, right? But I was like, oh my god, this happened so long, this is for, like, she's probably hooking up with him the whole time. And so when I think of an alpha, like, that's the problem when you get a bigger and bigger body count, is, like, you're more likely to find a guy that, like, next guy can't compete with. especially if you're batting out of your league. Wow. Girls are more attracted to guys that cheat. Why do you think they say men are trash? Why do you think they're always complaining about getting cheated on? We pick them. Because historically, there's biological roots to everything. So historically, if a man could take care of other women, that meant that he could take care of us. So if we see that he's taking care of another woman, like, then we're attracted to that. It's kind of messed up, but how many girls do you know that get cheated on and go back?

12:46 I don't see any logic in the last part. How does she connect taking care of somebody, providing for them, with cheating on somebody? He's not taking care of either of the girls if he cheats on one of them. Very strange logic. And girls who get cheated on but then still go back to the guy, and of course also guys who go back to the girl if she cheats on him, they simply don't have any self-worth, no value. They are insecure and they feel like they won't get anybody better or just generally anybody else. But a normal, healthy human being, once they get cheated on, boom, gone. Of course, that goes for every natural girl. Never make the mistake and think that she will ever come back to you. Absolute nonsense. Thanks for watching.