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0:00 Hey, as requested, I'm going to be reviewing a video called Female Dating Preferences in Men, What Women Find Attractive.

[video] 0:07 All right, guys. So for today, I'm going to do a basic tier list for you guys regarding female dating preferences. I'm going to rank these concepts in order of how attractive women find them in men. Keep in mind, though, there's a bit of a gray area when it comes to some of these topics. So if you disagree or you want to comment, feel free to leave it down below. All right, let's get straight into it. All right, ambition and drive. I'm going to rate this S tier, but I'm going to add a couple of caveats. You have to understand that ambition and drive are only useful as they provide benefits to the woman. That being said, though, it has to go into S tier because a girl needs to feel that her investment is worth it. And the only way for her to justify that is if you're ambitious and have tons of drive. One of the only ways you'll be successful.

0:36 What investment? What success? Which is what he's going to talk about from what it seems like your career, probably. The drive to climb the career ladder. Same with ambition. Why does that matter? If you're not attractive, why would it matter if you have some kind of drive or ambition? And you will have that anyway, most likely, if you're good-looking, because it means that you're well-developed. And if you're well-developed, you had high testosterone, except if something happened to you, you probably still do, and then you will be ambitious anyway.

[video] 1:14 is if you're ambitious and have drive anyway, so it makes perfect sense why this has to be here. It's funny, now that I said that, I'm actually probably gonna change my mind and move this down to A tier. This will make sense when I get into the next ones. Confidence, S tier.

1:25 Now you may be wondering, how is ambition and drive technically true in the sense that if you're good looking, you're confident, except that confidence in itself is nothing. You can fake it as much as you want. It's not gonna help you.

[video] 1:40 What success, man? What is this success that is gonna come? Let's say that you're below average in height and facially also. Now you have some kind of success coming. What is this success? That you're gonna get rich with money that doesn't exist?

2:10 Climb the career ladder, have a better car, and what is he talking about? How is that going to change anything?

[video] 2:16 Belief will inspire negative feelings within a woman. Confidence, however, especially if it's true confidence and not manufactured, is the ultimate way to quell any female anxiety when she's with you.

2:25 If you guys don't know by now... Yeah, again, indirectly true. If you're a great biological creation, then you're going to be confident in your skin, and she will like that. She will love being around you. It's just that you can't fake it anyway. So really he just put looks as the S tier in the first place. Confidence is just looks at the end of the day. It's your height and how attractive you are facially for the most part. That's it.

[video] 3:00 permanent state of anxiety. This is exactly why they always have somebody to quell this anxiety. This doesn't always need to be a sexual partner, of course. It could be her father, for example. Generally speaking though, the man that deals with her anxiety the best is typically a sexual partner. All right, so emotional intelligence is tough because you have this standard narrative of what it means and the actual reality of what it means. I'm going to put this into S tier, and then I'm going to explain what actual emotional intelligence is. Emotional intelligence is being able to accurately gauge someone's emotions. The problem with the definition of emotional intelligence from the standard perspective is that a lot of people assume that you don't have emotional intelligence if you don't take care of people's emotions. As in, you always have to prioritize people's emotions over truth or anything else. This is a mass...

3:36 Yes, so a guy who prioritizes the emotions of the girl is gonna get all the girls, because that's what girls are looking for. Literally, you will never in your whole life hear a girl say that. I think that the way these delusional men should look at it is by thinking about how you see a girl, what you want in a girl. When you look for a girlfriend, when you find somebody attractive, do you firstly think is she confident and is she emotionally intelligent? Does she have emotional intelligence? Do you? If you do, then okay, then it makes sense what you're saying. If you don't, then it does make sense. Let's just assume that nobody is looking for that in a girl. And it's the same for women. They don't look for that in guys. Nobody will ever say that. You could say that they don't say it out loud, maybe they think it deep down. No. They don't think about it, they don't feel it, nothing.

4:36 It's irrelevant completely. These guys have the problem that they believe that girls are different than guys. Of course, we are in some ways, but when it comes to choosing a mate, you look for the most beautiful, the best developed male, the healthiest one, most nourished one. That's what you want. That's it. That's attraction. Everything else can play a very slight role because we live in the society and we have been conditioned, but nature trumps everything always. And that's... Looks.

[video] 5:10 What truth? Imagine that you are together with Brad Pitt in his prime. He now lies to you. You find out. Do you break up with him because of that? You would.

5:34 if it would be that important. But in reality, it's really not even in the list because it's that unimportant. At the very best, it would be under D. Come on, man. That's how you need to think about it.

[video] 5:50 If you have a lot of emotional intelligence, it'll give you a lot of power in your relationship. And let's be honest, women want to be submissive to a powerful man.

5:57 That's true, but not somebody who's emotionally intelligent. It's your height.

[video] 6:04 first physically and psychologically. All right, so face.

6:06 Face is... Yeah, that's true, but you're not going to be dominant anyway. If you don't have the looks for it, you need to firstly be such a biological being.

[video] 6:18 It's tough too because there is some sort of a subjective component to this. I tend to think there's more of a standard when it comes to female beauty as opposed to male beauty. I think a lot of times a feminine standard is put on male beauty and a lot of guys perceive beautiful men to do well with women and this is rarely the case. So when we're talking about face, when it comes to men, it's not exactly easy to determine. Overall though, how you...

6:36 The fuck are you talking about? All beautiful, handsome men do well with women. No exceptions.

[video] 6:43 How you make her feel is gonna be more important than the way you look. How does that make any sense, man?

6:47 And by the way, the way you look like is the way you're gonna make her feel.

7:05 when she has butterflies in her stomach, when she cannot wait to see you again, when she wants to text you in these modern times all the time. It's her feelings being expressed. And these feelings are produced biochemically because she looks at your beautiful face. And if you're tall also, that adds even more to it.

[video] 7:34 What do you mean?

7:40 What is the finish line then exactly? I would think that the finish line is reproduction and love. She wants you, she wants to reproduce with you, she wants to be together with you for the rest of her life, right? It's the finish line. You could be very good looking and tall and

8:02 You don't even need to say anything. You walk inside of a room, whatever, outside. You look at her. She sees you. Wow. She smiles right away. You don't even have to say anything. She basically is giggling and laughing already. And you just shove a photo of a room that you booked or whatever. You don't even talk. You show her a message. Let's go to my room. Okay, let's go. That's it. If you're that good looking, I'm talking about really good looking guys.

8:39 Even if he would be deaf and mute, she would still be together with this good-looking guy over some guy who can talk and hear who's not good-looking, just some average guy. And that would make him cross the finish line because of his looks and the other guy couldn't cross this finish line. And he just doesn't get anything.

[video] 9:04 The frame as in the way you're built?

9:33 Yeah, it's pretty important. But the thing is that if you're well built, your face is also going to be well built. You can't have a super attractive face, a wide one and then a narrow body, for example.

[video] 9:47 Having a solid frame is all about consistency. Girls always want to feel that what they have is extremely consistent. That consistency boils down to security. This even goes...

9:55 Wait, is he even talking about the body or is he talking about some kind of confidence consistency again? I don't even know.

[video] 10:00 As far as admitting that you're a cheater. Of course, no girl on Earth wants a guy that's a cheater if she could have her perfect world. However, if you're attractive enough and you declare what it is, and she now knows to expect it, it won't be as destabilizing versus if you say you're not one and then you become one. This all has to do with frame.

10:13 How you present yourself... Oh, wow, he's not even talking about the actual biological frame. Never mind, this is even way worse. That's completely delusional.

[video] 10:23 Yeah, maybe. I think that a guy who's, let's say, 20 years old and he shaves his head is still gonna look 20 years old.

10:48 But it definitely adds a lot to beauty. Whether it adds to age, it's arguable.

[video] 10:56 A lot of people put way too much emphasis on height. I think the main reason why height is so attractive is purely from a dominance perspective. From the female perspective, if a guy is taller than her, he's always going to be perceived as more dominant. I think height gets an unhealthy amount of attention online and there's plenty of girls that would go for guys that provide other benefits outside of just pure height. That being said, height opens a ton of doors from an upfront perspective because it's hard to argue dominance when someone is much larger than you are. For that reason, I'm going to put it into A tier, and I'm going to put it above hair. All right, so humor.

11:21 So your hair is more important than your face. It's technically part of your face. It can frame your face. It makes no sense already. And then your height is also more important. OK, I could even understand why you can argue about that. But to put it in B, I just like it.

11:44 It's usually guys who are kind of average, because average guys don't really experience They can, but oftentimes they just go through life not really experiencing those black pill moments. When you're really bad looking, you get it exactly. You know that it's mostly about your face. And when you're very good looking, you also know that. Maybe you're not that conscious of it. The really bad looking guys are super conscious of it. When you're average, sometimes women just treat you kind of like whatever and then you have no idea really what's going on inside of their heads.

[video] 12:17 This one's very, very subjective in nature, but I'm going to try to break this one down in a way that makes sense. Similar to beauty, humor has a subjective component to it. That being said, the reason why humor is so important is because it's the ability to induce emotions. This puts it in a similar tier as emotional intelligence. Being able to induce emotions, especially positive ones, is one of your ultimate tools when it comes to seducing women. For that reason, I'm going to put it at the top of A tier. The only reason I'm not putting humor into S tier is because a lot of people overemphasize how important humor really is. When a girl likes you a lot, she's always going to find you to be more funny than if she doesn't like you at all.

12:45 Yeah, exactly. She's going to laugh at anything because she's just mesmerized by you. It really doesn't matter at all.

[video] 12:53 Keep in mind also that humor opens the door to clown behavior. Acting goofy can work against you when it comes to your credibility. It also has the potential to work against your frame. All right, so the next one is interesting as well, intelligence. I'm going to put intelligence right behind frame in S tier.

13:04 Intelligence usually goes hand in hand with your overall development, which is why if you have a good, well-developed body, then you're probably also going to be intelligent.

[video] 13:14 All right, so the next one is kindness. This one's quite interesting. From the standard perspective, this one should be going into S tier because all the girls talk about is how they want a kind man. Obviously, anybody with any level of experience with women understands that kindness is really not that important when it comes to attraction alone. Now, you could argue that kindness may be important in a long-term relationship because you can't always just be brutal.

13:31 The reason women say that is because they've been brainwashed since they were children to say that. They don't actually mean that.

[video] 13:38 attraction perspective, kindness really isn't that important. For that reason, I'm going to put it into D tier. Let's be honest, if you're a fully mature masculine man, there's really not that much space for fun. Fun and maturity tend to be at opposite ends of the spectrum. Women typically indulge more in fun activities than serious activities. When they're around you, they want to see that you have a fun side or a less mature side. While maturity is very important when it comes to success, career, goals, things like this, it's not necessarily the most important when it comes to getting a

14:02 Maturity may be unattractive sort of to women or anybody, because it means that you're a slave. I've made videos about this. Humans and nature are essentially always the way children are, because it's the way you're naturally supposed to be. You do change, of course, with hormones. during puberty somewhat but overall this playful being that you are full of joy that's exactly what you're supposed to be for the rest of your life so really there is no such thing as a child or an adult you should always be technically a child mentally for the rest of your life that's how all humans are in nature that's why when we encounter mature people We don't really like them. Yeah, if you're mature, brainwashed yourself, you can do something together with them. But...

14:58 Maybe women are just a bit more playful, if that's what he's saying, and then it would appeal to them more if he would not be as mature. Again, not as much of a slave, brainwashed, thinking about his career and all kinds of serious stuff, because there's nothing serious actually in life. That's all that you've been conditioned to believe.

[video] 15:20 attraction from females. Obviously, there's a spectrum to this because if you're extremely immature as a guy and a girl sees it, it can also turn her off. This is one of those cases where you have to hit the sweet spot if your goal is to attract a woman. For that reason, I'm going to put it into B tier. All right, so arguably one of the most controversial items on this list, money. Ask most guys online and they'll say that money belongs in God tier beyond anything else.

15:38 Money is completely irrelevant. It's in no tier. It doesn't even exist in the first place anyway. But even if you've been brainwashed to believe it, which 99% of people have been, you can't attract anybody with something external.

[video] 15:51 Now, I understand the classic framework as to why guys believe money is the most important thing. Guys that have money can afford to pay for experiences that women like to have.

15:58 Now, of course, there's some truth in this, but the problem... Yeah, but the only experience she actually wants is the reproduction with a tall and handsome guy. You can pay her to have that with somebody, Yeah, but not with you.

[video] 16:13 The problem is this. There's tons of dorks out there that have money that still don't know how to have a good time and experience the nice things in life with that money. Sure, girls may use some of these guys to get a really nice experience, but they'll never truly love that guy. This is why, ironically, money is not nearly as important as a lot of guys like to think. Money, of course, opens tons of doors.

16:29 Yeah, exactly. It does nothing. Obviously, she doesn't love you. She's using you. As I said before, if she sees that you live in a villa, she also wants to live in a villa. Does she care about you? No. She wouldn't care if you would move out. Yeah, you can of course also be good-looking and have a villa. And then it's even better, of course, because she has a comfortable life and she's with a good-looking guy. But even if you would lose the house, she would still be with you. Whereas if she's not actually into you, you lose the house and she leaves you. That's why if a guy loses his job and has financial problems, she leaves you because she was never into you in the first place. Whereas if you're good-looking, you could be homeless, you wouldn't even need to have anything in the first place, she would still be into you, because it's all about you. It's like believing that you can lure a dog by holding raw meat, and then if the dog comes to you and uses what you gave the dog, which is the meat in this case, then the dog is into you.

17:30 It's exactly the same logic behind attracting girls with money, except that it's even worse because money doesn't even exist. You're attracting them with an idea. At least the meat is actually a real physical item.

[video] 17:43 You're never going to get into certain rooms unless you have access to money. The depth of experience you can create with money is much deeper than if you have no money. But ultimately speaking, money is simply an amplifier to what you can already create. If you can't emotionally stimulate a girl without money, you sure as hell won't be able to do it with money. This is also why all the greatest players always say the same thing. I was always getting them even before I had money. Long-term money helps to create the exact life you want free of shackles. In the short term though, it will only amplify what you're already good at. For this reason, I'm going to put it into A tier right above and...

18:08 That makes no sense. Everything that you say makes it sound like it should be in D or at most in the C tier. How is it in the A tier? So money is more important than your face. Wow! Wow, a genius, amazing video. So Denny Devito? could just have a lot of money, which he does, he's a millionaire. He even has high status also, does he have status here? Oh yeah, there it comes, social status. And he could then easily go and get women, but look at his wife. Hmm, something didn't work out. It's more important than your face, but somehow guys who have a lot of money but don't have the face still don't get women. Something doesn't add up here. Ambition and drive.

[video] 19:01 Money is the practical proof of your ambition and drive, so it has to be above ambition and drive. Personality. Personality is really annoying because I think a lot of people use this one as a cope as well. I may not have much, but I have a great personality. This one's so incredibly subjective and it has so many different types of meanings, it really has no meaning at all. I think what most people are referring to when they're talking about personality is how enjoyable a person is to be around.

19:20 What are you talking about, man? Frame, confidence, emotional intelligence that essentially all falls under the so-called personality or character.

[video] 19:28 Aura, vibe, fun to be around. From that perspective, I'll put it into A tier right underneath humor. Shared values. Okay, so this one is quite interesting. A lot of people put so much emphasis on this. We have so much in common. Honestly, when it comes to female attraction, however, shared values are not important at all because from a masculine and feminine perspective, we really do want the opposite thing. Shared values might be important from a long-term perspective when you're trying to stay with someone forever. When it comes to attraction alone, however, what you'll find is that the opposites attract logic actually applies much more. For that reason, shared values don't really matter that much. However, sometimes it helps a little bit as a social lubricant.

19:58 It really doesn't matter at all whatsoever. There's people from different religions who are together. You can make anything work as long as you're attracted to each other.

[video] 20:09 When you're meeting somebody and you like something mutually or whatever, for that reason, I'm going to put it to C tier. Social status. This one's very important. I'd argue it's actually more important now than money even because there's a lot of lames that have tons of money, but they don't know how to talk. Having social status, however, bundles up a lot of things that you're capable of into one package. Social status can even be seen as social proof, of course. If you've been watching my channel for a while now, you probably would have realized that social proof is quite important. For that reason, I'm going to put social status right behind frame. People have a tendency to be so weak when it comes to peer pressure. If...

20:33 I'll explain to you in the end why none of this makes any sense. It's just such a stupid video.

[video] 20:38 What an absolutely stupid video. It doesn't make any sense at all. He put frame, intelligence, confidence, and social status at the top.

21:05 Meaning that if Brad Pitt would have a low social status, he would just be some cleaner. Which doesn't make any sense because of the way he looks like. Seeing as your social status usually goes hand in hand with the way you look like. But let's just say that it would be like that. It's possible. And if his frame would be different... if he wouldn't be as intelligent, which again doesn't make much sense because usually goes hand in hand. Confidence also doesn't make any sense, but let's just say he wouldn't be confident and he wouldn't be emotionally intelligent, then women would not be into him. Yeah, great, amazing video, right? I totally make sense, except that that will never happen in a million years ever in any dimension. No woman is ever gonna

22:01 in any way reject him, if they would be together with him, leave him, if any of that changes, it just doesn't matter. Then he also had the humor, money, and the A tier. Height is understandable, okay? Face should be at the top, height below, maybe okay, I suppose. Probably more so on the same level. Hair, which is also part of your face and can really change your face a lot, very important. Really, you can't differentiate both much.

22:33 Personality and height on the same level? What is this stupid list? Again, if Danny DeVito would have a lot of money, which he does, like I said, he's a millionaire, super high social status. Do you see women who are into him? Simply look at his wife. That's it. It answers everything. If social status, money and humor, he's also a funny guy, right? Would be that important. wouldn't all of the women want to be with him? That alone should make you think, okay, this doesn't make any sense. We look at men who have all of this, and then we look at who they are together with, and that's it, it answers everything. Yeah, some rich guys will have young and even sometimes hot women who will use them, and then they maybe even marry, divorce, and she gets a lot of his money, yeah. But you don't see any of them actually in love with them, wanting to reproduce with them.

23:30 They hug them, they usually just at best hold their hand for the camera, and then with disgust, they maybe give them a kiss. And that's it. Take a homeless Brad Pitt and she will be all over him, showing true love. It just says everything. Face is number one, height is also for sure up there. Hair also, because it's part of your face anyway. Money doesn't exist, humor is pretty much irrelevant and all of that, yeah. You can say that some of it has very, very... little meaning in a relationship some very slight importance here and there is nothing at the end of the day really because a guy who's mute is still gonna get all the girls as long as he's attractive anyways it's just pointless to even try to delusionally believe any of this

24:24 Shared values, kindness, at least you put kindness and all of that at the bottom. A horrible video, you know that this is all wrong. You probably want to believe that for whatever reason. Just snap out of it, man. It's really almost embarrassing what you did here. Thanks for watching.